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Curiosity Killed the Timeline…and Other Such Adventures

September 25, 2013

Recap of the past few days…

Saturday my friend Sara came to help us at the house.  It was awesome to see her again and hang out.  You’ll remember her from when she came to visit us in Congo, of course!  We met in Alaska, but now they live just on the other side of Boise.  Anyway, she is a talented artist and painter, so now my kitchen is painted.  The beautiful butter-colored walls now make the cupboard doors look terrible, but she hopes to tackle that project on another day.  How awesome is that!?

The other thing we hadn’t decided how to handle was the kitchen floor.  There were stick down tiles over some ugly linoleum, with enough tiles leftover to finish the gaps (don’t ask me WHY there were gaps).  However, when we moved the fridge to paint, the smell of dog waste came wafting out of the floor.  All of the cleaning we attempted, including dumping a bucket of Pinesol and letting it soak, did not get the smell out.  So, the floor had to come up.  But what was UNDER the ugly linoleum, under the sticky tiles?  The kitchen floor was about an inch higher than the room next to it…

So, Matthew took his ice pick from Alaska and went to town.  Under the ugly linoleum (80’s print) was press board, about half an inch thick.  And under that was pristine linoleum (60’s print).  It was in great condition, minus the staple holes used in the pressboard, but it was also ugly.  I left to run errands with the kids and came back to the kitchen floor completely destroyed by one curious husband.

However, he had discovered that under THAT linoleum we were greeted with beautiful hardwood, the same as in the rest of the house!  We were so excited!  We still are, but getting the adhesive from the linoleum up hasn’t been easy.  Tomorrow we hope to finish that process.  And, best of all, the dog smell went with the pressboard!

In other news from around the house, the living, dining and hall are also completely painted.  The trim and doors now stand out a bit more, but that can wait until after we’ve moved in.  The ugly orange and creamsicle blend is finally gone from our view.  It is a fantastic feeling.  We’ve also made progress on other small jobs and little things.  While parts of the house were cleaned (as part of our closing requirements), some parts got missed.  I’ve spent a lot of energy scrubbing and cleaning.  My best example, though, came from the top of the fridge.  Under a half inch of dust and dog hair (I severely wish that was an exaggeration…but it’s not) I found the greatest thing of all: a tiny dentist’s box with a TOOTH in it.  A complete molar, with two roots, and little bits of blood.  Seriously?!  I didn’t even get a picture before tossing it in the trash, but, yeah…that was a fun find.

Sunday was a wonderful day of rest from the work and we enjoyed it very much.  We love our church here and the automatic family it brings.  We are looking forward to getting to know the people there better as well.

Monday, in addition to completing a lot of the jobs mentioned above, Levi and I went to see the midwife.  It was a good catch up visit, going over my summer of getting my prenatal visits done around the country.  I now have scheduled the rest of my midwife visits through baby’s birth, whenever he or she decides to come on out of there…hopefully not for another few weeks!

Yesterday we had an unexpected day off as Matthew woke sick, probably from something he ate on Monday.  Yuck.  It was a dreary gray day outside, too, so it matched our mood.  The kids did enjoy playing all day at this house (Lisa’s parents’), since most of their toys are here.

Today was another dreary, rainy day.  And cold!  I woke up with the sniffles and a sore throat and just generally not feeling well.  We went to work at the house, putting some finishing touches on the rooms that are ready.  As we speak, Matthew and some helpers (I haven’t even looked out the window since I’m feeling so miserable) are loading a truck with all of our belongings from my parents’ garage, where we dropped it off at the beginning of our road trip in June.  They’ll move it to our new garage, where we’ll sort it – some of it will continue to be storage, some will be put to use and come to Africa and much will be liquidated.

So, hopefully the remaining urgent projects go well and smoothly so we can be settled and living in the house next week.  We begin training very soon!  Training at MAF is classically known to be intense, long days, so we’ll want to be ready for it when it begins.  No pressure!

Housework

September 20, 2013

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It’s coming along…

One Color Down…

September 19, 2013

Since our focus right now is getting our housing situation ready for our short stay in the area, for future renters, and for long term investment purposes, I suppose that will be the focus of the blog for at least a week or two.  However, if you don’t know us very well, then maybe you don’t know about Matthew’s amazing talents in the home remodeling department.  Of course, it was these talents (and many others) that led to our first term in DRC, but it’s great to see him using them again after a six month break.

Actually, it’s LOVELY to be working again!  The months on the road were hard work, don’t get me wrong, but it was mostly mental.  Constantly being social, in other people’s houses, being prepared for the next stop, etc. – it wasn’t the same as some good, old fashioned manual labor, though.  Matthew and I are doers and we missed it!  Of course, that’s not to say I’m loving it at this point…32 weeks pregnant and seriously quite huge.  I know most pregnant ladies say they’re feeling huge, but if you saw me right now…yeah, huge would not even begin to describe it.  And the first two times around it didn’t bother me, but third time’s the charm – any comments I’ve received usually do not get a warm reply.  I apologize, but then…I don’t, because, is it really polite to comment on how HUGE I am?  Nope.  It isn’t.  Blame the crazy pregnancy hormones, if you must.

Anyway, I digress…the house is coming along well…though, as to be expected, the unexpected things come up.  We have been super blessed to learn that every appliance in the house works (and works WELL, actually, including the heat)!  Painting has been going great and we’ve finished with one color (it’s in two rooms)!  Woo hoo!  We had a cleaning party yesterday with a huge help from a lady and her two teen daughters from church and an adoptive mama I first met in Kinshasa who lives in the area.  It was AWESOME to get so much done and prepped for paint (so. much. ew. the walls were terribly dirty!) – paint is all most of the rooms need to be brought back to their original charm.

Another highlight to my day was meeting our elderly neighbors behind us.  Our backyards meet and they were out tending to their garden while I was forcing sending the kids outside for some get-out-of-our-hair play time.  The yard is fenced, which is lovely, but it was destroyed by the previous renter’s four large and one small dog.  Oh well, wrong time of year to fix that, so on we go without a lawn.  Anyway, their names are Frank and Thelma – they are adorably old, at least 85.  They gave us tomatoes, beans, and cucumbers from their garden and chatted briefly about how happy they were that the renter lady was gone and that we had bought it.  Frank said he was sad that the road had become so busy and dangerous.  I wasn’t aware it was dangerous…

Not twenty minutes later I was back inside painting with the windows open when Matthew and I heard the classic sounds of metal and plastic being crushed violently.  A car accident!  Right out our window!  No one seemed to be injured and our small town brought out not one, not two, but THREE police officers, each in their own vehicle, an ambulance, and a tow truck.  It was quite a sight and a few minutes of entertainment.  But both cars are likely totaled.  And, more importantly, Frank was right: the road is dangerous!

The cable guy came today to set up our internet and told us stories about the house – he has visited three times.  The first, he thinks the owners were living there, and it was very nice, though the paint was ugly.  Then there was the messy dog lady renter – and he talked about how she was completely horrid, made him install all sorts of stuff, had other people in and out of the house, and he remembers six dogs tearing up the place.  He, too, seemed happy someone else had bought the house.  It IS adorable, after all.

It’s fun to be working and fixing up such a lovely old house and something we know is a good investment.  It’s fun to have a new focus after such an adventure (with its own focus).  It’s fun to be able to nest…because, again, at 32 weeks pregnant, I need to do these things.

And now…to sleep.  Because all this work and growing another person at the same time…it’s tiring!

Prayer Request List (and an update)

September 17, 2013

Matthew and Levi are currently using their muscles to save the world…from the ugliness that is the wallpaper in our kitchen.  (See last post if you missed the BIG news.)  It’s a first world problem, for sure, but it would not even be welcome in third world countries, I assure you.

We’ve been busy the last two days with getting the house ready for move-in time.  Gathering the things we need and preparing the house – it’s in need of a bit of cleaning and a lot of paint, a few light fixtures and some furniture.  Not a lot, but a lot of little jobs.  We hope to move by next week sometime.

This morning we also stopped by the MAF headquarters to say hello, check in on some things, pick up some stuff that was waiting for us, and just get reacquainted.  It’s fun to see our home office family again!  If you’re reading this and DIDN’T see us yet…we’ll be back…lots.

Anyway, back to the wallpaper and assorted house things…it is busy, dirty work, but are so excited for this little part of investing in our future AND our present.

So, how can you be praying for us right now?

– We have lots to do in a relatively short period of time.  Our first training segment starts on October 4 and will go continually for two weeks, a busy 8-5 day, leaving little time for projects.  So, we want to be as ready as possible for that time to focus on our training AND have a comfortable living space.  Pray that we will work hard right now – and pray that sickness stays away!

– Pray that the follow up we are doing with people and churches on the road leads to growth in our support team, as well as cemented relationships that we hope will keep going for a long time!

– Pray that our kids will continue to adjust.  They are masters at being flexible, but it’s time to have a more orderly day by nature of the training.  Also, pray that they will enjoy their time with their sitter (who we will meet on Thursday) and her kiddos!

– Pray that other details, like language school, manager training, and our final placement are being sought through by those who are in charge of such decisions.  Pray that we will be patient and wait for those decisions to be made!

– Praise God with us that things are going well, all things considered!  Baby #3 is growing and moving and seems quite happy to stay put for a few more weeks…and please pray that it continues to be so!  I don’t want to go into labor too early…and in the middle of training!

– And, most importantly, pray for Congo.  Pray both for our MAF team there and other missionaries serving, but also for the people we love so much!

The End of the Road Trip…

September 14, 2013

Of course, I need to do a picture post with all of the latest pictures from the road trip…but really, it’s over and we are quite happy to be in one place, with just one more move until we leave to head out to language school.

But that leaves many questions.  Until now, we have had a plan and schedule.  Now that the road trip is over, things are out of our hands.  Thankfully, though, things were never really in our hands.  God has been leading us and guiding us, but he’s also been leading others.  Our support still sits just over 50%.  Some days that is actually discouraging…but God has a plan in mind for how we go from here to 100%.  Maybe He’s nudging you to help, to partner, to be part of the work He has for us in Africa?

God has also been leading those at MAF’s HQ and beyond.  We have five months of training (various modules and seminars, so it’s not constant) here, but not all of it is laid out yet.  Then there is language school.  Of course, we can only go to language school once we are mostly supported, so maybe we won’t go in five months, or maybe we will.  God’s timing doesn’t bother us – but how do we pursue a Godly use of our time, but at the same time, trusting completely in His plan and timing?  I suppose we’ll know more about that in five months.

So, where do we go to language school?  Still unknown, though conversations have taken place and we have shared our thoughts with those at MAF who will point us in the best direction.  Again, it’s God’s plan and timing.

Mission work overseas extends far beyond going to live in a foreign culture and land…it begins with the preparation on the homefront.  I still think this phase is tougher than actually living in Africa, but don’t hold me to that.  🙂

However, bringing us back to the present, we have been busy this summer in other ways.  Believe it or not, it gets crazier!  When we landed on this side of the ocean in April, we spent a lot of time thinking about and planning for our future.  Obviously, we were thinking about our future with MAF in DRC and planning that.  Then planning for the immediate future – the road trip, which hopefully helps us to prepare a team to get us back to DRC.

Then, there’s the future that makes you feel like an adult…the far far future.  Some people call it saving for retirement, others call it investing.  One thing we really hadn’t considered, but knew we needed to!  Then, people here in the Boise area kept talking about how great the housing market is.  It crashed, HARD, in 2008, but the area is growing rapidly and the housing prices have started to rise.  The rental market is hot, and the houses are still generally cheap.  We began to casually look at houses, not really sure if actually investing in one made much sense for us.  Would we live in it?  What about making payments?  Seriously, a house?!

Then, as fall and winter training plans came together with MAF HQ, we realized our stay in the area would be quite long and, with adding a new baby, would be rather involved, even though it still is temporary.  So, we made up a list of criteria and began to look more seriously as it seemed more and more like a logical step.  Then, we made our first offer after viewing a house while we were in the area.  We left and were on our way back to Seattle when we got word that the offer fell through.  Oh bummer!

We made a second offer and a third.  Both fell through.  Then we found it.  It was perfect – adorable, great location, not a short sale or foreclosure (we knew we’d need it in the fall for it to make sense, so we couldn’t wait out a bank), not too much work needed, would rent well, and within our price range.  We made an offer above asking price just to be sure (it was priced LOW).  We were so excited!

It fell through.

Obviously, God did not want us to have a house.  We had been mistaken in what we thought were His plans.  We were over-excited about being back in the US.  We weren’t thinking clearly.  We prayed and prayed.  But, no, really, it still made sense to keep looking.  And we found one.  We didn’t love it at first, but we were so heart-broken over the last one.  This one needed a little more TLC, but was much bigger.  This one didn’t have the adorable yard, but was in a more accessible part of town and would probably rent easier.  This one had a garage and a perfect place to store things we’re leaving behind, without getting in the renter’s way.  This one was the same price.  We made an offer.

It stuck!  And now it’s ours!

And today we saw it for just the second time.

God has provided so much for us in this process.  We were able to get a new roof as part of the offer.  The house had no problems being empty and fairly neglected all summer.  It is the perfect space for us with room for guests – we’re having quite a few parade in when baby comes.  And we are praying that God is lining up good renters for us.

The beautiful thing is, though, that it was such a good deal, that even if renters don’t come, the small monthly payments won’t affect our ministry in Congo.  We won’t be struggling and worrying about something back in the states.  It’s exactly what we hoped for in an investment and a little for retirement.

Today, my parents headed back to WA, where they live full time, and we set out to begin the process of settling.  We needed a few basic furniture pieces, like beds!, but are wary of spending too much.  God provided SO MUCH for us today through Craigslist and thrift stores – a bed for us, for guests, a couch and loveseat, a baby dresser and changing table combo.  We already have a dining table that belonged to Matthew’s grandparents.  Levi’s crib has been in storage since we left Alaska; Amelia never got the chance to use it, due to us moving around so much when she was crib-sized, but she’ll use it now as we convert it to a toddler bed.  We have a bassinet for tiny baby #3.

We have some work to do (and if you’re in the area, we’d love some help!) to make it feel a little more like home – and make it a little more renter-friendly – but not much.  Actually, our home inspector, who is also a friend of my parents, told them that if we hadn’t closed on the house, he would’ve picked it up because it’s in such great condition!  What an uplifting comment!

And now, you curious minds want to see pictures…and they’re on our computer and I’m not.  But soon…especially as we have some “afters” to go next to the “befores!”

Days 101 – 102: The End

September 13, 2013

After 12.5 hours of driving today…

From Monterey Bay, CA to Nampa, ID…

After 102 days…

After 37 states…

After 15,510 miles…

After sleeping in 46 different places…

We are back in Nampa (with two very surprised parents – Lisa’s – who are leaving to go back to WA tomorrow) and DONE with the epic road trip.

We still have a few more places to go and see, on and off as we are able, starting with a weekend trip to Salem in two weeks, but we are now in our home area for the next five months.  Five months!!!  Woo hoo!!!

Days 98 – 100

September 11, 2013

Yep, 100 days on the road!

So, anyway, the past three days have been really busy.  Let me see if I can recount them with any sense of accuracy…

On Monday we enjoyed a great breakfast reunion with a friend from our home church in Tacoma, WA and her husband, who had just been hired in Tucson as an assistant pastor.  It was so fun to get to know them a little bit!

We headed back to our hosts’ house and packed up, said goodbye, and went off to a lunch appointment with the missions chair and pastor of the church we attended on Sunday.  It was fun to share more details about the work in DRC with MAF, all while Amelia slept on Matthew’s lap in the restaurant.

The rest of the day was the drive across the desert of Arizona.  Our goal was to cross the border of California for the night.  We made it, but the fifty cent gas price increase and the interesting choices of hotels, most surrounded by a friendly-looking assortment of homeless people, we decided to head back five miles across the border in Arizona for the night.

That hotel room we shared with a few crickets, but they were welcoming enough and the kids enjoyed them…when they were under the water cups…but as soon as one “escaped” (with help, I’m sure) there was a lot of screaming and freaking out…hilarious for us and the cricket, I’m sure.  We did enjoy the pool and headed out after a relaxing morning…

Tuesday’s trip was across California to the Los Angeles area, Chino Hills specifically.  An adopting family there welcomed us into their home – and let me nap – until it was time to head out for our small group presentation.  We drove down to Mission Viejo, further south in Orange County, and had a great time meeting some adopting families, other church friends, and even a fellow MAFer’s parents!  The night was late and we stayed up even later chatting with our hosts, but it was well worth the conversation time.

We still were unsure of our plans for Wednesday.  If you remember, we had originally planned to go to Disneyland, but after talking on Monday we realized we had left out one factor…ME!  While I was fine two months ago trekking through the heat through Boston on the 4th, NYC and all over Central Park, and the Smithsonian for Levi’s birthday, I am now much more pregnant feeling than I was…and walking long distances (or short ones), especially in the heat, seemed like a reach.  We briefly talked about renting a motorized scooter, but after really evaluating our options, decided our time (and money) would be better spent elsewhere.  Only feeling a little guilty for depriving our kids of their opportunity for Disney fun for the next four years, we were at peace with our decision and decided on the next best thing in California…the beach!  Plus, it’s [mostly] free!

So, back to Tuesday night, right before bed, we got a text from Matthew’s youngest brother, who we’d hoped to see as he’s stationed at Camp Pendleton, but he wasn’t sure his schedule would allow it, that he was free in the morning…yay!  Wednesday morning we drove down, picked him up and took him out for a super awesome breakfast.  The kids LOVE their Uncle David!  And what a better way to spend Patriot’s Day (the official name of 9/11) than with our favorite Marine!

After we dropped him back off for work, we headed over to the beach.  I think we landed at South Laguna Beach, but I’m still not sure.  The weather was nice and sunny, in the low 70’s, but the sun was hot…and the Pacific is COLD!  The kids enjoyed the sun and the beach was so quiet and low key.  As soon as we arrived, the kids decided their focus would be on the few seagulls scattered on the beach.  They called them pigeons and immediately began calling to them: “yaka owa, pigeon!”  I attempted to explain to them that, (1) they were seagulls, not pigeons, and (2) they probably did not speak Lingala.  They didn’t believe me on either count.  Thankfully, a bit later, an actual pigeon walked by, so we were able to talk about the difference.  We were all pretty tired after an hour of just laying in the sun, though Levi and Daddy had a great walk, so we decided to drive along the 101 to take in a bit of Cali while the kids slept (and, oh boy, did they)!

We arrived at our host’s house (a different host!) tonight, also adopting from DRC, in time for a delicious dinner and good conversation…though, I suppose, I’m not very good at conversing while writing, which is what I’m doing at the moment.

Tomorrow we drive up the coast…

Days 96 – 97

September 8, 2013

Yesterday we had a lovely lunch with some adopting families in the Phoenix area, and a few of their friends, at our hosts’ house.  It was very low key and relaxing, which was great!  Then we took a quick dip in their pool and said goodbye and made our way down to Tucson, which was only a 1.5 hour drive – very short for us seasoned road-trippers!

We made it after nightfall to our hosts’ house in Tucson, and shuttled the kids straight to bed.  We weren’t far behind and got a great night of sleep.  This morning we were up early and off to church.  We presented a brief version of our story at the end of Sunday School and even got a few minutes in the service for Matthew to introduce ourselves.  We met a lot of neat people at the church and are enjoying our hosts (he is the pastor), who have adopted three kiddos, two of them from DRC.

This afternoon I got a nap (yay) along with the kids!  Then the small group for our hosts was at the house, so we got to be part of a great Bible study and some awesome fellowship.

Tucson has been much cooler than Phoenix, oh-my-goodness-yay!  It’s also closer to how I always pictured Arizona – red rocks and cacti!

Tomorrow we have a breakfast date with a couple, the wife is our friend from our church in Tacoma, WA and a lunch with someone form the church here.  After those we are headed west to California, though we won’t arrive until Tuesday.

Day 95: Pictures and a Birthday!

September 6, 2013

So, as you were clued into yesterday: it’s Amelia’s second birthday!  We didn’t really know where we’d be staying or what we’d be up to until just this week, so we didn’t make any plans.  We’re hoping to make plans to celebrate as a family next week, but more on that later.  So, when we arrived at our host’s house yesterday and they asked how old Amelia was, I casually mentioned she was turning two tomorrow…and they pulled together some amazing blessings for our sweet girl’s birthday!

This morning was the regular mom and kids at the splash park.  We had a great time, though it was super hot (109F or so again today), though the moms did get to park in the shade.  Levi made a great friend in the sand and Amelia loved putting her head under one of the splash park features.

Amelia was exhausted since she decided to rise early on her birthday and fell asleep on the way home…and proceeded to sleep for the next three hours!  Ah well, that’s what I would do on MY birthday…  We hung around the house here for the rest of the afternoon.  After Amelia woke, we celebrated with cupcakes and ice cream and Amelia opened her present from our sweet hosts: a new baby and a stroller!  Every house we’ve visited that has a baby doll stroller she has clung to it and pushed it around and we were talking yesterday about we definitely needed to get her one once we were settled…how awesome that she was blessed this way!

Then we went for a dip in their pool, but not long after a dust storm began to roll in so we rushed back inside.  The dust storm was only brief, but that was enough pool for everyone anyway.  The kids played well until dinner, and are now all in bed.  Whew!

And now, for some pictures from our last week (just click the first picture to see them all in detail!)…and then a question, because we are stuck!

Question: What we WANT to do for Amelia’s birthday…and as a family who wants to soak up bits and pieces of our home culture before transporting ourselves to a new culture for four years at a time…is to go to Disneyland.  We will be there next Wednesday, our day set aside for it, but are looking for a way to do it on a missionary’s budget.  If anyone has any advice, recommendations, offers, or anything else that might help more than the internet, please let us know!  You can email us at mlind@maf.org.

Days 92-94

September 5, 2013

Please tell me you saw the last post, written by Matthew himself?!  It’s a rare treat for him to write a blog post, for you AND for me, so make sure you don’t miss out – all about our “man”cation in Durango.

Tuesday morning we left our friends in Durango and headed southwest, crossing the Four Corners (UT, CO, AZ, NM) and heading into Arizona.  Our goal that day: the Grand Canyon!  Neither of us had ever been, so we figured we should stop and see it.  It surprised us at just how immense it truly was.  We now consider ourselves fairly well traveled, but the Grand Canyon is far grander than we had assumed.  We drove through the park, stopped at each lookout on the South Rim and admired the view (between the rain storms).  Hearing the thunder echo through the canyon was almost, but not quite, as cool as seeing the rainbow.

We then drove to the nearest major town for a hotel stop for the night, in Flagstaff.  We enjoyed a brief dinner, quick dip in the pool, then got some work done on the computer before retiring for the night.

We had a leisurely morning, since our drive was fairly short to Phoenix.  We are beginning to actively make plans for our return to Idaho and to begin training.  One of the first things we did that morning was to sign Levi up for swim lessons.  He’s done so well this summer and made so much progress, Matthew wanted to be able to keep him active, and the Nampa rec center offers evenings swim classes, so it’s fun to make a little progress toward a stable life, even if this sort of stability is still temporary.

Our drive to Phoenix was gorgeous and, yet again, Arizona surprised us.  The mountains were covered in pine forests – reminding us of Washington and Idaho!  We saw many more rainbows as the sun shone on one side and the dark clouds thundered on the other.  We also made our first drop below 5000ft for the first time in over a week!  Yay for my poor, squished, pregnancy lungs!!  But not yay as we watched the thermometer on the truck climb to 111F!

We arrived south of Phoenix on the Pima Reservation.  Our host family there are missionaries, he is a pastor, to the Pima tribe, but they have adopted and are in the process again from DRC.  We stayed in one of the mission buildings, where teams who come to help stay, and hung out with the family for the afternoon before heading out to dinner.

That night it was the regular Wednesday night prayer service, and we were given the opportunity the present our mission in DRC with MAF to the native people who came.

It was fun to get to know this amazing family and hear about their mission work on the rez – how similar it is to the despair in Congo, yet it is on US soil!  Matthew even had the opportunity to do some visiting with the pastor and see some of the villages – the reservation stretches from south of Phoenix all the way to the Mexican border, so it’s quite vast and many places are isolated.

This morning Amelia was up early, ugh, but we had a good morning spending time with our hosts.  The Mrs. and I headed to her regular lunch date with several pastor’s wives in the area and I enjoyed chatting with them and eating some tasty Mexican food.

Then, in the afternoon, it was time to say goodbye (until Saturday) as we split our time to spend it with another family – one who I got to know quite well in Congo, as she was stuck for over two months in country due to paperwork delays with her two girls.  So fun to meet again and see how much these girls have grown!  Our kids were quick to take advantage of the pool (rumor has it it was over 110F again today) in the shade with Daddy while I got a much-needed nap!  Hooray all around!

Tomorrow is kind of a big deal…go here to remember what happened two years ago…