Preparations Begin
Well, they don’t truly begin, because we’ve been slowly preparing for nine months, but today was our first day off since moving into the house and we have been hard at work. The day started off with a huge disappointment. Today was the day our vinyl floor was to be installed in the kitchen. We had it measured and scheduled almost three weeks ago, but since we couldn’t take time off from training, we had to wait. Our kitchen floor was three layers of ugly, dirty vinyl and Matthew removed it to see if the original hardwood would be an option. Sadly, the adhesive used on the wood doesn’t come off – Matthew spent three precious days and numerous methods trying, but to no avail. So, we’ve had this black adhesive-colored kitchen floor, which wouldn’t be so bad, except that we quickly discovered it is water-soluble. Meaning, every time it got a drop of water on it, it became sticky. So, we’ve had to wear slippers or flip flops just to prevent our feet from becoming tarry. Again, not a big deal, but annoying and less homey.
So today, the guys arrived right on time and surveyed the floor. Sadly, there had been several miscommunications about the job AND the manufacturer had sent the wrong vinyl. So, Matthew sent them away and headed over to the flooring place (because these things are so much better in person). We got it all sorted out and, in theory, they’ll be back on Thursday to get the job done.
Oh, first world problems… Do I sound whiny? Sorry about that. It was just such a let down. Ah well…
So, the rest of today we worked hard making the house more ready. Matthew spent time on the bathroom (more details on that for a later post) and I did loads and loads of laundry, mostly baby-related, and organized all of the baby things we’ve found so far…and realized how much more I would like to find in the boxes in the garage. Also, most importantly, I got a nap!
Tomorrow I am 37 weeks pregnant. This means that I can have the baby without concern for prematurity – it also means the midwives can deliver the baby safely. Yay! Baby is big and moves a lot, so we know he or she is healthy.
So, you all can start placing your bets on day/time of the birth…and the gender! Levi was born 15 days early (and weighed a whopping 8lb 4oz) and Amelia was 10 days early (at 7lb and something…mother of the year cannot remember). So, we are hoping for another early delivery, but a big healthy baby to go along with it. So, cast your theories of timing and gender! No prize, except gloating.
End of Orientation!
Today was the last day of Orientation. This week was some heavier material, focusing on finances, grief and loss, saying goodbye, and culture. We got to have a whole day with an excellent Christian anthropologist – it was so fascinating!
Maybe one of the most interesting things we’ve been learning, though, is all about Islam. The fastest growing religion in the world, and certainly popular in many of the countries where MAF serves (our biggest program is in Indonesia, the largest Muslim nation in the world), it is important to understand the basics of their faith. It was presented in a video study, put together by a former Muslim, turned Christian, who didn’t condemn any Muslims, but rather presented the basic theology of the religion and discussed ways to enter into the discussion of Christianity. It was really interesting, mostly because I knew very little about Islam! While Congo doesn’t have Islam as a predominant religion, it is growing exponentially in that country, and there are plenty of expats from the Middle East there who do business and it is nice to have a bridge to talk to them.
Tomorrow and Saturday morning is another lecture, but since I’m not actually sure what it is, I guess I can’t say much about it.
Other than class, we’ve been busy trying to put together the house little by little, but have been out each evening, so it’s fairly slow. Sadly, Levi is done with swim lessons. While the first lesson went swimmingly (ha! pun!), the following two had him refusing to get in the water, only wanting to play by himself in the pool. Ah well, maybe next time. (I’m totally down playing how frustrating the whole thing was…we’re not saints!)
Baby’s due date is still technically 3.5 weeks away, but things feel like they’re drawing to a close. I’ve had a few contractions, but just the practice kind. The kids are getting excited about a new little one…Amelia has pointed out my baby belly every day. But, then again, it’s really in the way, so I don’t blame her for drawing attention to it.
So, back to grind of the evening with two tired little ones…
More on Orientation and Life
The problem with such a busy week is that there is so much to share, yet little or no time in which to share it! I last wrote to you Monday all about Orientation, the current training module we’re doing at MAF HQ. This week, each day, we’ve gone and be encouraged and given tools on how to deal with normal aspects of life, but in a stressed setting – because to say living in a foreign culture isn’t stressful, would be lying. And to say that your life can continue on as normal, thus you can coast by, would also by lying. So, MAF gives us tools and information to help us succeed. Not just BE in that new culture and setting, but also to know when to ask for help. We learned about communication, forgiveness, mental health, and other little tidbits – just more tools for the tool box. On Thursday and Friday, we met off campus at a retreat center for a marriage seminar. The first day was all about communication with each other (though, those same principles apply to communicating with others). The second day was about sex (!!!) and parenting. All awesome stuff and it was great to be in a new setting for a couple of days.
Besides the part of our day for orientation (we leave the house at 7am and return around 5:30pm – so a long part of our day), we’ve been busy with other things. Levi began his first official swim lessons. We made such progress with him this summer and his comfort in the water that we wanted the success to continue. He had a great time on Monday and loved it. He was happy, participatory and excited. Thursday’s lesson…disaster. But, we’ll try again on Monday!
Matthew has been getting back into Judo at the local club near our house. He loves the exercise and it’s been nice for him to be able to get out in this way. He hasn’t been able to practice since we left Alaska…but he says it’s going well. I would say the bruises and scrapes suggest otherwise, but he insists that’s part of the fun.
We’ve also been busy on the house. There’s a few projects needing to be finished pre-baby, but progress is being made and we’re excited about it! We had one little problem crop up (that we have now realized was an old problem that nobody bothered to fix), but it’s passed now and Matthew got to spend two whole nights with Bill, the Roto Rooter guy. But, yay for Bill coming at 3am and 5am two nights in a row and dissolving those evil roots in our sewer line. Easy peasy.
This pregnancy is also nearing the end. Officially, it’s just about four weeks to go, but, again, so far my babies have been early by a couple of weeks and this one feels like he or she is on the same path. We’ll see…
Orientation
On Friday we began our first training session/module/class at MAF HQ in Nampa, just outside Boise, ID. Orientation is normally done before the families head to the field. It is two weeks of training that covers relationships, spiritual warfare, practical stuff (like benefits), a marriage seminar, and other details of being a missionary.
Our class has nine couples in it, which is quite large. The other eight have followed the “normal” MAF path and are done raising support, have finished all flight training (all but us and one other couple are pilots and/or mechanics), and are ready for the field and language school. While a few are still waiting on visas, most leave within a few weeks to begin life in a new country. Us and another couple are assigned to DRC, three to Indonesia, and four to unnamed countries in Eurasia. It’s a fun bunch, though we’re still getting to know each other. We all have young kiddos, which is kind of a fun commonality.
We, obviously, are in a different boat since we’ve already been to the field, but haven’t finished raising support and we aren’t leaving for the field just quite yet (we have a few more training modules to finish that will take through February). That’s ok, though – we are getting plenty out of the different training sessions and it’s a good refresher and refocus-er after being away from Kinshasa for six months.
Friday and this morning the orientation’s focus was one spiritual warfare. You’d be fooling yourself to think that this concept doesn’t exist or isn’t a real battle. It looks different in our culture, but demons and the one they work for are quite active in other cultures. We know of plenty of cases of active demon possession and curses in Congo – these things are real and must be prepared for. Fortunately, we do not have fear of them because we know the authority Christ has given us to fight the battle. The training is interesting and educational. I hope to rarely have to use it, though.
Another requirement of orientation was a cultural church visit. Each family in the class went to a different cultural church this weekend. We had the honor of attending the local Congolese church. Boise is home to a large Congolese population, mostly refugees from Eastern Congo. The church meets at 4:30pm on Saturday. We had a great time and met several Congolese. Though our Swahili is limited to “jambo” (hello) and “hakuna matata” (you know this one…), which is the language in the East, they appreciated our Lingala and the French even came in handy. The service itself was very very much like what we had experienced at several church visits, especially similar to the church we visited in Kikongo, a small village outside of Kinshasa. There was lots of singing (in Swahili and English), lots and lots of praying (in several languages), a testimony (in English!), and a sermon (in English and translated to Swahili). It lasted almost three hours, which was a little tough on the kids at that time of day, but we managed.
Orientation continues the rest of this week and next. It’s a tough pace, since we’re not used to the 8-5 rhythm. We’d appreciate prayers during this time – that we would glean much information, but also that we would spend our time wisely outside of training…setting up house and catching up from our contacts from our road trip takes up most of our evenings. So, time for some sleep!
Reminder to Shop
Just a little reminder to start this week by getting some Christmas shopping out of the way (or just a little personal shopping for a good cause) – and share this opportunity with your friends! Support us and get some great all natural products by shopping at Lemongrass Spa at our friend Tara’s site! Click on the events by her picture. Go SHOP – you only have until the 15th!
A First Glimpse…
I know it’s been a few days – and each of those days could fill a blog post.
Wednesday and Thursday we began moving stuff in and preparing to live at our house. Thursday night was our first night sleeping here!
Friday we began our first training module of this next season of our lives at MAF HQ. The next two weeks consist of Monday – Friday, 8-5, plus dropping kids off at a(n awesome) sitter’s house.
Today we spent more time on the house and running errands, followed by an afternoon at the local African church, which is made of mostly Congolese! It was AWESOME, even through the three hours at evening time with two kids.
So, I hope to go over each day in more detail, as each day has been such a different aspect of missionary life, but for now, here is a first glimpse of our house. You all know, when moving, it’s important to finish little places of refuge in the chaos that is tools, boxes and random clutter…and I’m happy to see such amazing progress here in this corner.
Couches from the thrift store, curtains 75% off at an amazing sale, side table one of the rare pieces we kept from life in Alaska, lamp from my (Lisa’s) mom as a house warming present, brass coffee table a wedding gift from Matthew’s grandfather, brought back from India where he was a missionary in the 1950’s-ish, and rug from craigslist. The book on the table is our summer’s adventures in pictures – we took a photo with EACH family we stayed with, plus a few other highlights. Amazing blessings that make up our living room.
Oh, those gorgeous flowers? Well, those are sent with love, from our amazing partners in crime missionary work in DRC, Nick and Jocelyn…and Ruth.
So, in conclusion…clearly, I need to catch you all up…
Lemongrass Spa Fundraiser
I mentioned it briefly in yesterday’s post, but I wanted to give a few more details about the next two weeks! Tara Bailey is a Lemongrass Spa Consultant, but she is also one of my oldest friends – we’ve known each other since we were 3! She is helping us raise a few more dollars toward our outgoing costs: plane tickets, doctor visits, language school, shipment, etc. and YOUR HELP, as always, is needed.
Lemongrass Spa is a company out of Colorado that specializes in 97-100% natural products – everything from skin care, make up, spa essentials and even baby products! It’s a great catalog, really superb prices (think Bath & Body Works), AND I’m not going let it pass that Christmas is the month after next and Lemongrass Spa makes great gift samplers all ready to go!
So, make some great purchases for yourself or for the upcoming holiday season (Lemongrass Spa just released their holiday catalog) AND help us get fully funded to GO!
The show is open now until October 15th…get shopping (click on My Events by Tara’s picture)!
Weekend Away…and an awesome opportunity!
On Saturday morning we loaded up in a familiar fashion and headed out on the eight hour drive to Salem, OR. We arrived in time for dinner with some friends from our home church in Tacoma, who are now the pastor and his wife of Evergreen Presbyterian Church in Salem. We spent the night at another member’s house and were up early for church Sunday morning. Matthew was able to share a bit with the congregation about our ministry to DR Congo and we spent quite a while after church getting to know as many people as possible. The welcome we received was warm, even though the rain was pouring and relentless outside.
That afternoon we gathered for lunch again at the pastor’s house. His wife’s sister is one of my dearest friends in the whole world, and was the matron of honor at my wedding. For the evening, Matthew and the kids went over to another church in the area and she and I got caught up at her apartment.
We slept another night listening to the pouring rain before heading out Monday morning. Thankfully the rain ended where it began: at the mountain pass. It was such a great weekend sharing, meeting new people, and getting caught up with old friends.
Today we will son be headed back over to our house to make final touches before moving in (well, the work won’t be done, but final touches for us actually moving in to live there). We have just three days because on Friday we begin the first training module at MAF!
However, I first want to announce that my fantastic friend Tara is offering an opportunity for you to purchase any of the great items from Lemongrass Spa in order to help us raise funds for our outgoing cost goal. I will write more in depth about this tomorrow, but I wanted to mention it since the sale begins today! You can go here and begin shopping!! If you’d like to read a bit more about it, head over to the facebook event.
Prayer Request
As many of you are aware, my (Lisa’s) mission focus while in Congo intertwined with the adoption community there. I helped adopting parents online in a Facebook group with answering travel and cultural questions, then was able to help them in country by taking them to local markets and in other small ways. I still try to help when possible in the forum online and, more recently, we met literally over one hundred adopting families on our road trip this summer. Obviously, these special families have a place in my heart – in our hearts!
So, I wanted to share with you an urgent prayer request tonight: the US government confirmed that, as of two days ago, the Congolese government has ceased issuing the needed paperwork to allow adopted children out of the country. This has happened in the past, when problems or suspicious situations have arrived, but in today’s announcement, the government of DRC states that this shut down could last for up to twelve months. (Go here to read the notice.)
While we don’t know to what extent this will suspend adoptions or if it will truly last that long, you can imagine the parents who are currently in the process and how heavy their hearts must be tonight. A few parents are currently in Kinshasa as we speak, hearing the news, and not knowing if they will be bringing their babies home! Either way, prayer is needed!
Please pray for the families who are being affected and who might affected in the future. Please pray for the foreign governments, the US included, to help and understand the position of the Congolese government and what can be done to lift this suspension and prevent it from happening in the future. Pray for the government of DRC, that they will quickly sort out where the issue truly lies, and how to resolve it for the sake of the families and kiddos who are waiting to be united. Finally, pray for the children. Those who have families waiting for them, who may face up to an additional year without parents, many without proper nutrition and healthcare.
Thank you for your prayers!
Mailroom
Since we’ve been asked quite a few times about where to send mail now that we have a house and are back in the states (in one location), I thought I’d just do a general PSA about it. If it doesn’t apply to you (because, why in the world would you send us mail!?), then never mind.
We are indeed receiving mail at our house, but instead of trying to keep track of which address is ours, only to change your address books yet again in a few months when we leave for language school, I would suggest continuing to send us mail care of MAF (address at the bottom right of this website). The mail room staff at MAF are awesome and have set up a mailbox for us to collect mail (and packages), so let’s all keep it simple and stick with that address for now!
If you’re REALLY interested in sending something to our house, just send us an email.

