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The Final Trimester

March 21, 2015

No, not in pregnancy…there’s none of that going on here…but we were scheduled to be here, in language school, for three trimesters.  And we just completed week one of the third trimester.  You can sort of feel a buzz about it.  It is refreshing energy to be able to draw from in order to study harder, because this is our “last chance” to learn all the French things.  Spring literally sprung around here this week – with new flowers, green buds on the trees, and sunny days with temperatures approaching 70F/20C!  But it’s also the realization that we’re moving to a new place, a new country, a new culture…in four months!  I look forward to sharing with you all more details about the move when it gets closer…and I when I know them!

But, to recap, exam week was a lovely break from routine of class.  Sure, it included exams that left us with only a fraction of our brain power at the end, but we passed and are moving on to study.  Matthew’s class is now spending a lot of time involved in debates and practicing the language, learning little new grammar, but rather nuance and specificity.  I am preparing to learn several new conjugations that will make reading easier (yes, in French, sometimes the written language uses different conjugations than the spoken…it’s super) and I will continue to press on being able to speak more fluidly.  Is that a word?  I don’t even know English anymore…  …with more fluidity?

Last night we had a lovely get together with our entire #teamcongo.  We even had a special guest, Michelle, an OB/GYN heading with Samaritan’s Purse to a village in eastern Congo where MAF has a base.  She is learning French in Switzerland (at a school for singles – no families), but she came in to meet us.  So, 15 of us gathered (plus four babies, who were pretty much in bed by mid-meal) to eat together, bond a bit with some crazy games, and just hang out.  It was super fun, though playing pictionary with mostly medical personnel, when we’ve made all of our owns clues, can be extra special.

These two ladies are amazing!

These two ladies are amazing!

#teamcongo, minus one who was sleeping

#teamcongo, minus one who was sleeping

Pictured above, from the left, Tim & Kathy Rice (Vanga), Michelle Doran (Nyakunde), Anna & Patrick LaRochelle, with Miriam & Luke (Nyakunde), Ashley & Dave Peteresen (Nyakunde, MAF!) – baby Daniel was already asleep.  Front row: Nancy Rice, daughter to Tim & Kathy, you know us…and Shannon & Ryan Potter with Sydney.

We are looking ahead to visas, the last visits from family, packing and hearing of our shipment’s send-off, and, of course, cramming all of the cheese we can into our faces before we leave.

Exam Week

March 11, 2015

This week’s exams are half done.  For me (Lisa), I have completed my more challenging set and, while I wouldn’t describe the rest of the week as “easy,” I would at least say the major part of my studying is done.  Matthew has his grammar test tomorrow morning (I did mine on Tuesday).  Overall, please continue to pray over our week of tests.

The up-side to test week is the free time in between tests.  Many exams are fairly short, so we have an extra hour or two while the kids are still in school to study.  But, like after my grammar exam yesterday, I couldn’t actually use my brain for much else, but I used my extra two hours in the afternoon to do some amazing cleaning while my house was empty.  It was awesome.

Other highlights these past few days include enjoying some gorgeous weather (topping 60F with lots of sun and just a few clouds) but still the beauty of snow on the mountains around us and Axel getting his yellow fever shot in a nearby town where the travel doc was even kind enough to notice that Axel was behind on his one year vaccinations (ahem, oops) and gave them to him.  Now that he has his yellow fever shot, we will be ready to apply for our Congo visas when it’s time in a few months!

I am especially thankful for our community here on the language school campus.  While we all don’t always agree and living in community with other families has its challenges, I have been completely blessed by the honesty, frankness, and graciousness by our friends here.

And, so, here’s to finishing out our week in exams (results are Monday), and on to a new or repeated class!

Six Months

March 4, 2015

Two weeks ago, we celebrated our six month anniversary of living in France.  And, by “celebrated” I mean that we remembered the next day and one of us mentioned it to the other and we both said “oh, yay!”  We are grateful for the time we’ve had to spend here, immersed in the language, learning the grammar, and preparing ourselves in this way to serve in Congo…and six months down means only four months to go!

Six months here also marks another big milestone…  When we first arrived and learned some French phrases, we began using them at home with the kids.  (Matthew has been using French for a long while, but I was a little behind…)  Levi was always really interested in learning French, but Amelia buckled, scowled and generally was not cool with that.  So, we backed off – there were enough changes in her little life.

Some friends here told us that this is normal, but at around six months their kiddos suddenly started speaking French (comprehension comes a lot quicker, but it is really subtle with little ones).

We, of course, forgot this fact…but sure enough, last week, Amelia broke out of her shell and began speaking to us in French.  Not always understandable French, but always French-sounding babble.  But, SOME of it is real French…and she can name most everything around her (even I didn’t know some of the words, but Levi confirmed them for me).  She even scolded Levi one day for speaking in English.

This is an awesome milestone and we’re so excited for her.  Not only because she’s progressing in her French, but because it also means she is more comfortable with the changes in her life.  She misses her friends and surroundings in Idaho (her only memories), but this is an excellent step!

Things I’ve Learned

February 24, 2015

This week I’ve learned a few interesting things I thought would be fun to share.  We recommenced school after our two week February break.  It was much-needed, but it is hard to go back full swing.  The kids were excited to back to school, so it helped us feel a little more enthusiastic.  Actually, the lack of enthusiasm is probably more due to the fact that our next batch of exams is in two weeks – they will determine whether we move up to the next level or should hang back and review this level.  Either option is really quite valid (…I tell myself, in a state of panic).

Doing the math (…that I totally stole from another language student’s blog, thanks Konroy), we have nearly pushed through the equivalent of two years of high school French and, once we are done, we will have completed three years!  That is crazy!  And it also helps me relax a little that I’m not actually GOING crazy.  French is hard.  And we are cramming it all in AND trying to do normal life with three young kids and a little apartment to keep clean and lives to lead.  Congo is actually starting to sound relaxing…something about the grass being greener in the jungle?  Wasn’t that it?

I also learned an interesting cultural fact.  I love little snippets of cultural differences that make me really think of my own cultural norms and how they are not “normal” but are “specific” to my own culture.  In France, there is a love of bread and it is eaten with most meals.  However, you will rarely find a bread plate anywhere.  Why?  Because you are expected to put it on the table.  In my own culture, putting food on the table is a no-no – it makes a mess and there is the question of the table’s own cleanliness!  But here, especially if you are at the home of a French person, if you put your bread on your plate, they will think that you think their table is not clean!  Whoops – faux pas all around.  So, if you’re like me, you’ll chew on that (ha ha, pun) for a few days and what does it mean?  Who’s manners are better?  Is that a fair question?  (No.)

So, if you find us hiding under a rock for the next few weeks, it’s because exams are around the corner and we are hiding from, errrr, preparing for them!

Our Friend, Tirzah

February 11, 2015

Our friend, Tirzah, is here visiting us, hence the relative silence online, and we are having a mostly great time.  Mostly great because, we are sharing everything with her, including the flu we had last week.  So, yeah, oops…

But, besides that, we have enjoyed much sunnier weather this week, several walks around town, lots of sleeping, some French food, visits with our classmates/friends, and little introductions to our life here.  Having someone from home (in this case, a friend from our church in Idaho) come visit us, it is always encouraging and refreshing.

Our family is feeling much better and mostly over the horrible plague (flu) that all five of us encountered a week ago.  But then I have spent the last 24 hours with the stomach flu.  A different adventure.  And yet, despite the different trajectory of her visit, Tirzah has been most helpful in our home while I was out of commission.  We have a couple more days with her, including a weekend trip to Lyon that we are really excited about.  We are also grateful for these two weeks (this week and next) off of language school, to refresh and reset our brains.  And do homework.

Flu, Snow, and Ski

February 4, 2015

Last week began the Plague on the Lind house.  Axel had a fever, so Matthew and I took turns watching him at home on Tuesday.  Then, by Tuesday night, I went to bed early, only to wake less than two hours later with a fever.  I proceeded to sleep and be feverish for the next 24 hours.  Levi came home for lunch with a fever on Thursday, and Amelia jumped on the bandwagon with a fever on Friday.

Friday night, Matthew needed to take the kids on an errand, got them all bundled up and Levi stood up and promptly fell into his sister and began twitching.  It turned out he had just fainted, but not knowing that, I was out the door to get help in less than a second.  Wow, we are so blessed here – in less than 30 seconds our apartment was filled with more medical professionals than Levi would have had had he been sitting in the nicest hospital suite in the country!  We are very grateful for our friends who literally rush to our aid to help us out.  Levi was fine – just a little dehydrated after a very long nap that afternoon.

Saturday, I was home, still weak and coughing, with three sick kiddos while Matthew went out skiing.  Saturday night, Matthew came home (after quite the adventure skiing – a bus backed into our friend’s rental car and a tree had fallen across the road, adding an hour to their drive home)…with a fever!  Sunday was a day on lockdown to keep the plague at bay.

Oh, did I mention we got three feet of snow on Sunday?  Three feet, most of it fell in less than 24 hours.  It was really fun, from the droopy eyes and coughing lungs of our flu-filled home.  Actually, Amelia and I did manage a walk downtown with my teacher, Anne, just to see what it was like.  We got wet, but the fresh air was nice.

Anyway, back to the sick house…Monday, I headed back to class, abandoning Matthew and three sick kids.  Actually, the kids seemed to be doing much better, which was actually worse for a full-on sick Matthew, who could’ve used lethargic children on his day home, instead of normal, bouncy, cabin-fever-filled energetic ones.  But, whatever.  Monday night a friend was able to drive me to the grocery store, since our supplies were completely out and starving the fever is not the same as starving the stomach.

Tuesday – breathe – we paused the sickness (because we can?) and went with the whole school on a ski field trip.  Axel stayed in the nursery here, with all of the other babies – he’d been fever free since Saturday, so he seemed good to go.  Levi and Amelia were super excited.  Amelia was especially whiny, but Levi was gushing about how he would go faster than a race car once Daddy showed him how to ski.  He surely did go fast, and loved every second of it.  Amelia, however, after a couple of runs down the beginner hill with Matthew, got even more whiny, and cuddled in Matthew’s lap in the snow.  We had brought all of the ski gear in a plastic tub, so we cleaned it out and made her a nest…and she was asleep in less than ten minutes!  She proceeded to stay in the tub for the rest of the day, completely content, even if a little sick.  She slept on and off, enjoyed some snacks, and just rested.  I stayed with her and watched the boys ski down the hill and up the magic carpet tube.  Can’t really mind the location or the perfect weather we had (zero/32F, sunny, no chilly wind).

Today Matthew and I have been focusing on making the house feel normal again, the kids stayed home from their normal morning classes (we always have Wednesdays off), and I’m about to sit down to catch up on my homework while the kids are all napping.  Tonight we welcome a friend coming from Boise, so we’re really excited to host our first guest here in France!  Hopefully she stays plague-free.  Next week we began another two-week break from classes, and my brain could really use a chance to catch up on all its been taught!

Please continue to pray for our health.  Axel’s and Amelia’s fevers came back last night, though Matthew, Levi, and I are doing much better.  We are so so so grateful for a building full of support, both medical and otherwise.  Soups, babysitting, and fellowship and we are well-loved.

Ready to ski!

Ready to ski!

The love mountain view!

Love the mountain view!

Initially, she slept all snuggled in, so people didn't notice her.

Initially, she slept all snuggled in, so people didn’t notice her.

Later, she fell asleep like this...just making us look weird.

Later, she fell asleep like this…just making us look weird.

The top of the magic carpet tube, how Matthew and Levi got up the hill all day - see that's them!

The top of the magic carpet tube, how Matthew and Levi got up the hill all day – see that’s them!

Resting on a snow bear.

Resting on a snow bear

Faire Une Dictée (Doing a Dictation)

January 20, 2015
Today's dictée...

Today’s dictée…

Roughly each week, in class, we do a dictation (dictée).  Don’t tell my classmates, in case they find it odd, or my husband, but I looooooove dictées.  I find them challenging and an excellent test of what I know…and what I don’t. The teacher will read a short paragraph out loud, once through, then go through it again, line by line, as we write exactly what is said.  Exactly.  Not “close enough” or what we understood, but everything correctly: conjugation, spelling, vocabulary.  After the reading is done, you have several minutes to look over everything and fix it.  Make sure it makes sense and that you remembered all of your accents, gender-related spelling, and little silent word endings.  It is a lovely challenge.  I have not mastered it them, as you can see by my photo above of today’s work, but I still love them.

They are graded on a 0 – 10 scale.  For every mistake you make, you get a point, or part of a point, marked down.  Grammar is a whole point, spelling is a half point (unless it is grammar related), and punctuation (notably, accent marks) are a quarter point.  As you can imagine, most often, zeros are awarded.  While this can seem discouraging, it does make getting ANY points suddenly quite exciting.

I enjoy dictées because I find that I learn to pay attention to all of those little, connecting words that I might otherwise skip over if I’m trying to listen for understanding.  The little words can, indeed, make all of the difference between past tense and present tense, or whether someone had something or went somewhere.  But, it helps me to understand what I’m listening to.  And prove to myself that I did, indeed, understand.

Today I got 1.75…under zero.  Oh well.  I once got a 9.  I’m still standing by that 9.  And, I learned from my [many] mistakes today and [probably] won’t make them again.

French in the World

January 16, 2015

Admittedly, despite my recent travels, I am terrible at world geography and other cultures.  I mean, I know more now than I used to, but sometimes I am surprised by some basic facts that I feel like I should’ve known.

So, this post will focus on the French-speaking world, or Francophonie.  Yes, it’s a real word.

We are learning this language that is rarely used or seen in the US.  Yes, many high schools still offer it as a second language, we hear it every two years at the Olympics or if you watch UN meetings.  Some who live near Canada see it more often.  But, mostly, it would seem under utilized.

Le monde francophone

Le monde francophone

This paragraph, taken from Wiki, is just amazing to me – having known so little…

Algeria is the 3rd largest country in number of francophones, after France and the Democratic Republic of the Congo. The 2008 census counted 11,2 million people, aged 5 and older, declaring reading and writing French. Algeria is also sometimes pointed out as the second French-speaking community in the world, having 16 million francophones.

So that brings us to Africa.  Africa has so many French-speaking countries on the continent…here is a close-up map.

Francophone Afrique

Francophone Afrique

Over 220 million people in the world speak French, either as a native language or learned.  It is good to be here to learn this language and suddenly realize how far we can reach knowing it!  While our hearts and plans are all for Congo, God’s plans are bigger than ours and we are open to them above all.  Knowing such a broadly-used language will be an excellent tool.

Lyon

January 7, 2015

Before I tell you about my day, galavanting around France’s second largest city, let me mention what was happening just a few hours north, in the largest ville.  If you haven’t read about it yet, I encourage you to do so on your favorite news site.  France is in mourning for the tragedy that occurred.  Please be praying for this nation and that all will come to the knowledge of their need for a Savior.

But, I will not let an act of targeted terrorism stop me from being excited about my day and sharing it with you all!

Today, me and four other ladies left behind five strong husbands and 13 children in pursuit of a day of kid-free peace.  It was a sort of last-minute, thrown together, let’s go, thing…and it was a great way to spend a cloudy, chilly day before school gets too involved this semester.

Lyon is less than two hours away by car, so off we went.  The first stop was finding parking, which was easy enough.  Then we hiked up a million-ish stairs to the top of the hill overlooking the city.  At the top of this hill was a gorgeous cathedral and some Roman stadiums that are about 2000 years old.  Yeah, old.  The Roman city that was there before Lyon was called Lugdunum, founded in 43 BC. So incredible!

From the hill, the day begin fairly foggy

From the hill, the day begin fairly foggy

Shannon and I were excited to see the cathedral

Shannon and I were excited to see the cathedral (Shannon is an OB/GYN headed to Vanga, DRC)

The mosaics and details cannot be described...this is the only picture I took, because I wanted to SEE everything...

The mosaics and details cannot be described…this is the only picture I took, because I wanted to SEE everything…

We took a train down the hill to lunch and traditional Lyonaise food, which was delicious, and headed back out to the center of the old part of the city.  We explored another cathedral and several little shops and allies, before heading across the river.

Salade Lyonnaise - delicious with a vinegar dressing and lots of bacon and a poached egg on top!

Salade Lyonnaise – delicious with a vinegar dressing and lots of bacon and a poached egg on top!

Four of the five ladies standing in the Roman amphitheater - we spent a long time playing with the incredible acoustics

Four of the five ladies standing in the Roman amphitheater – we spent a long time playing with the impressive acoustics

Ancient Roman column, no big deal

Ancient Roman column, no big deal

There were over a hundred Roman stones like this one stored off to the side - perhaps they were signs announcing the different events at the two amphitheaters?

There were over a hundred Roman stones like this one stored off to the side – perhaps they were signs announcing the different events at the two amphitheaters?

When I sat on it, it rolled a bit...oops.

When I sat on it, it rolled a bit…oops.

This smaller amphitheater was designed especially for music and speeches.  See a tiny Shannon at the top with white gloves?

This smaller amphitheater was designed especially for music and speeches. See a tiny Shannon at the top with white gloves?

The miniatures and cinema museum looks interesting for last time, and I took this quick selfie out front, not realize that the [original] iRobot was looking right at the phone...creepy!

The miniatures and cinema museum looks interesting for our next visit, and I took this quick selfie out front, not realize that the [original] iRobot was looking right at the phone…creepy!

Oh the cathedrals!

Oh the cathedrals!

Shannon and I on the pedestrian bridge crossing the river - that cathedral on the hill had been our first stop of the day

Shannon and I on the pedestrian bridge crossing the river – that cathedral on the hill had been our first stop of the day

Here, we toured several different plazas and streets.  Everywhere were medieval cathedrals and statues and cobblestones.  Finally, it was time of turn around and head home.

The plazas were impressive

The plazas were impressive

Probably one of the most majestic buildings I've seen yet...can you see the chandeliers were on in the ballroom on the second floor?  (This is a hotel!)

Probably one of the most majestic buildings I’ve seen yet…can you see the chandeliers were on in the ballroom on the second floor? (This is a hotel!)

The day was exciting and a wonderful day off, with lots of French reading and listening and some speaking, so it was great.  I can’t wait to return here with the family and explore more!

Lovely!

Lovely!

L’Epiphanie

January 6, 2015

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Today is Epiphany – the day on the church calendar that celebrates the kings’ visit and the end of the 12 days of Christmas.  Here in France it is marked with la galette des rois – a king cake! 

The special thing about these cakes is that there is a treasure baked inside!  The traditions surrounding the person who receives the treat in their piece vary, but usually something along the lines of getting more cake (or buying others a cake!). 

We purchased one from one of our favorite boulangeries with the most delicious chocolate filling.  Of course, Amelia got the little treat, which happened to be a little blonde girl…we think a French literary character but have yet to Google it.

So, happy epiphany and the formal end to the Christmas season!  And, yeah, the cake was delicious…