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The Work Begins…

April 22, 2013

We are back and today was Day 1 of our full time deputation.  Deputation is “missionary speak” for a time of sharing about our mission work and what God is doing in DRC and gathering prayer and financial partners so we can begin that work.  Since we only raised financial support for one year of service last time, we are doing it again.  We aren’t starting from scratch, for sure, but we have a ways to go.  The current estimate, financially, is that we are at 30% of our monthly goal.  Not bad, but we will be busy!

So, we are beginning (barely beginning) to get in touch with people now that we’re back on this side of the Atlantic.  Last time we did this, as short term missionaries, we mostly stayed in the western Washington state area, minus a five week, cross-country road trip.  This time, since we are career staff, we have a higher monthly support goal and we have a wider range of people, spread across the country, that have come across our path and we will be traveling full time.  After we get a few more ducks in a row, we’ll post a schedule of our travels.  For the next month, we’ll be here in the Seattle/Tacoma area for two weeks, then we’re off to Alaska for another two weeks (visiting both Fairbanks and Anchorage), then back to the PNW for another two weeks before taking off for parts unknown.  Okay, they’re known, and we’ll post them soon…

Today was spent organizing our materials for our travels and presentations, unpacking our bags from the past week’s romantic getaway (which was perfect in every way), and settling back with the kiddos.  Oh, and making lists, because lists always help to get things done!

Meanwhile, if you’re in the Sea-Tac area, we’d love to see you!  Send us an email or leave us a comment!  And don’t wait – we aren’t sure if we’ll be back after we leave at the end of May! Yikes!  More details to come of our adventures and what is keeping us so darn busy!

Anyway, I hope that clears up some of what we’ll be up to – but we’ll keep you all posted, sharing with what God is doing and answering the mostly commonly asked question of the moment: “What’s it like to be back in the US/how’s the [reverse] culture shock going?”

The Pause Before the Beginning

April 13, 2013

Hopefully you all read our good news from yesterday.  Last night we jumped into the car and drove across the mountains back to the Seattle area – our childhood homes!  We arrived just after midnight and quickly got to bed at my (Lisa’s) parents’ house.

This morning is busy getting our stuff a little sorted and seeing some family.  We will dive full on into ministry partnership – finding people to partner with us in ministry with prayer and financial support – starting April 22.  It will be a crazy whirlwind of busy-ness, mostly us traveling all over the country until the fall.

But, first, next week, on Monday, we are celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary.  Since the last two years have been celebrated in the rush of moving (moving OUT of Alaska in 2011 and moving INTO Africa in 2012), Matthew got on the ball and surprised me with news of a week-long getaway for just the two of us that he has been planning for months!  The grandkids are spending the week with very excited grandparents.  We are very excited for this week away to celebrate our marriage and past six years together!

So, excuse our absence and unplugged-ness for the next week!  Buh-bye!

Acceptance!

April 12, 2013

This morning we were officially accepted as career staff with MAF.  We were also officially assigned to Africa.  Making things official is an exciting step in the process! 

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It is our last day in Nampa and we are tired, but have had a great week.  We got to see friends, both here at headquarters and for dinners and lunch. 

What’s next?  Ahhhhh, that’s for another post on another day…

Our First Week Back

April 9, 2013

Sorry about the unexpected break in blogging.  Well, I’m not sorry, really – we have been quite busy!  A little foray into our last week…

We arrived completely out of it last Wednesday night.  My (Lisa’s) parents met us at the airport…well, they met the grandkids and we were merely accessories.  We spent the weekend recouping from a very long time traveling, unpacking and sorting our bins, and regrouping – gearing up for the next several months of travel.

Of course, we embraced real American life right away, too.  I have already trekked to Target three times, and once to Old Navy.  We watched a bit of much missed TV.  We went to a steak restaraunt.  We still have not embraced the drive through for Levi, though…no need to push it, since a life on the road will make it an occasional necessity soon enough.

Sunday was a highlight of our time back because we got to worship at “our” church here in Nampa.  The United Reformed Church of Nampa has been our place of worship each time we’ve been here since joining MAF two years ago.  We were able to present our ministry last time and this week we were happy to give an update to the congregation.  Levi was extra excited to be going to church in English!  However, the traveler’s colds, continuing jet lag, and the quiet unfamiliar church environment (not hot and loud like in Congo), led to a bit of disruption by Amelia.  The pastor, mid-sermon, who is also a friend, was able to sweetly remind the staring congregation that children are a part of church, too.  And no one held it against us.  We feel quite at home there, especially now.

Monday morning we said goodbye to my folks, as they left to head back to WA to their “regular” house, and went in for our big interview.  The panel interview is to formalize our intent to move forward in MAF and to seek a management role.  It went well (we think!) and we reconvene on Friday to finalize MAF’s decision.  The rest of this week is full of appointments with various MAF departments to close out our short-term status, review our year in Kinshasa and debrief us, and to work on our Ministry Partnership goals for this summer and fall.  We are busy busy!

Please pray for us as we move forward.  Pray that God will be glorified in what we are doing and that our focus remains on Him.  Pray that those who are called to partner with us will feel God’s leading in that.  Pray for the logistics of being on the road for five months straight.  And continue to pray for DR Congo – both the country as a whole and the MAF team we left to continue the work.

We Have Returned!

April 5, 2013

We are back in the states!  All of our bags made it and we are doing mostly well, though we all have a mild travelers cold in some form.  Jet leg is only minor and the kids are having a blast with Grandma and Grandpa (Lisa’s parents) at their new house here in Nampa, Idaho, just a few miles from the MAF headquarters. 

We had a decent flight, times three, but it was exhausting.  We’ll have more to say later, but we wanted to let you all know we’re alive!

Europe: Amsterdam Date!

April 1, 2013

Matthew and I were so excited to head out to Amsterdam for the day.  Maarten and Nicolien volunteered to watch our kiddos so that we could actually SEE Amsterdam.  The kids, theirs and ours, had a great day at the playground, then again at the zoo in Arnhem.  Random fact: the lion that roars as part of the MGM logo was born at that zoo!  Anyway, the kids had a blast on our last full day in The Netherlands while we were out playing tourist in a fantastic city.

We boarded the train in Arnhem and it was a one hour trip to downtown Amsterdam.  We did the only thing a good visitor does in Amsterdam to see the city: we rented bikes!  Our first stop was the maritime museum (called her Scheepvaartmuseum).  The Dutch boast of their amazing history on the sea and this museum was a great showcase.  If you haven’t known us very long, you may be unaware that Matthew spent his formative years sailing and it is still a great love in his life, so this stop was perfect for us.

Next we biked around to grab a tour of the canal system on a boat.  Because the city is/was/should be underwater, the canal system is as important as it is functional.  On that tour we saw some buildings built in the 1600’s and learned some fun facts about the city.  We also floated past the Anne Frank house, which was a highlight for me.

After the tour, it was time to head back to the train station, so of course we rode through the most infamous part of the city.  It was a quick ride, and we certainly weren’t there to partake in anything, but it’s right on the way.  (And if you’re not sure to what I’m referring, then never mind – Amsterdam should be known for many more things than that.)

The ride back to Arnhem was a sleepy one – a whole day of fresh air and brisk wind followed by a warm, lulling train ride would put anyone right out!  We came home to happy kids and a tasty dinner.  Tomorrow we head back to Brussels just in time for a night’s rest – Wednesday is the big flight back to US soil!

And now, pictures from the last two days…

Europe: Resurrection Rest

March 31, 2013

Our first blog post about Easter is one of our most popular posts, since people searching for chickens being beheaded accidentally bump across it…that was in 2011 in Alaska.  Then, last year, our first Sunday in Congo was Easter Sunday, where we were sort of like zombies at the sunrise service on the Congo River.  This year, we are on yet a third continent, celebrating in a different way.  I have no idea where we might be for Easter in 2014…how fun!

Today was a relaxation day.  We took a walk around the neighborhood this morning – Hanna on a little bike and Levi on a tricycle, and the two little ones in strollers.  It snowed on and off all day again, and was fairly chilly.  We walked along a dike, saw some sheep and geese, went to a small playground, and climbed the bell tower of the town [Catholic] church.  After lunch, I took a nap while Amelia slept.  Hanna and Levi played a three-year-old’s version of hide-and-seek.

For Easter dinner, we went out to a pancake restaurant – where the pancakes are about 15 inches across and come with any additions you can imagine.  Matthew got a cheese one, and I enjoyed a raspberry pancake with powdered sugar.  Levi and Amelia are HUGE pancake fans, and inhaled theirs as well.

Tonight, after the kids were asleep, Nicolien’s parents were kind enough to hang out for a bit while we went to the town bonfire.

Of course, there are lots of pictures, but my computer is about to die and we are headed to bed.  Tomorrow is an all-day date in Amsterdam, courtesy of our hosts volunteering to hang out with our kids!  Woo hoo!  Amsterdam is about an hour’s train ride away – we are excited to play tourist for a day after a few days of being locals.

Europe: Chilly Dutch History

March 30, 2013

Today we visited an outdoor museum full of Dutch history, especially focused on every day living for the working and farmers.  The buildings had been moved (each brick and beam) to this location and there were reenactors to help tell the stories.  It was a fun day for our and our host family!  The museum also caters well to kids, so they had lots of fun too.  It was quite cold, again hovering around the freezing mark, and snowed on and off, but we all survived.

Because we’re about to head out to a Saturday night Easter service, I have included some pictoral highlights from today…and a few from yesterday…enjoy!

Europe: Dutch-y-ness

March 29, 2013

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Spent today trying a bit of Dutch culture. The photo depicts tulips, which will be the only tulips we’ll see this trip – the cold snap delayed them a bit. And the treat is a stroopwaffel – a sugar waffle, like a waffle cookie with a caramel/maple gooey filling of deliciousness. A favorite Dutch treat.

Today we explored the largest IKEA in The Netherlands and had some amazing pie at the oldest cafe in the country, established in 1478…yes, before Columbus sailed the ocean blue. We woke to snow and while it did melt during the day, it never got far above freezing temps.

Our dinner was a delicious Dutch dish of sausages, boiled potatoes, and red cabbage with apples and garlic. Breakfast here is bread with either cheese or chocolate sprinkles. Yes! We ate lunch at IKEA, of course….and their special today was German chicken schnitzel. Nothing like being in The Netherlands, in a Swedish store, eating German food to celebrate the EU as a whole!

Also, here is a fun and educational video to watch…it will explain while I’ll never say “we’re in Holland.”

Europe: Getting There

March 28, 2013

I am writing from a living room in Giesbeek, Netherlands.  It is late evening, quiet with all four kids asleep.  Nicolien is a long-time online friend, and she and her husband opened their home and are our hosts while we get a few days of R&R before returning to work in the states.  Their kids are the same ages as ours, but opposite genders, so it has been a fun afternoon for our kids as well, though there is a language barrier (the kids only speak Dutch, but the parents speak English), our kids don’t really know any differently, considering they haven’t played with kids who speak English in a year…

But, backing up, we began traveling out of DRC on Tuesday evening.  That was the worst flight experience of our life…and part of the problem was that it started long before the plane left the ground.  We waited at the airport for six hours, four of them were after the kids’ bedtimes.  Movies and food didn’t keep their attentions, so about half way into our wait, we were already on edge with the kids and their…uhhh…attitude problems.  Amelia began this obnoxious scream/screech.  We now know it quite well.

Side story: about a month ago I got to have one “co-chief” of an adoption agency working in DRC over for dinner.  Our last dinner, on Monday, we had a founder and operator of a different adoption agency come over to Nick and Jocelyn’s – in both cases, they had heard my name from families who had traveled and gone shopping with me.  They wanted to meet this person who was talked about so much.  Then, at the airport, a single, white female sat behind us in the waiting room.  She asked us a quick question, and we asked what brought her to Congo.  She began to state that she ran an adoption-help organization…and the minute she said its name, I knew who she was…and I said my name…and she knew who I was!  So, we got to chat on and off for the two hours before her plane left.  What a small world.  And a privilege to me to learn more about adoption and the process in Congo from their end, as well as give these adoption organizers a different insight into Congolese culture, from our perspective.  A fantastic thing…but, anyway, back to the traveling story.

Finally, it was time to board the plane.  We got on, excited for the lights to go out and the hum of the plane to lull our tired kids into a deep, flight-long sleep.  HA. Ha ha ha.  What dreams!  Levi, at least, was enthralled with the third Ice Age movie (each seat has a personal touch-screen with movies, games, TV, etc.).  The plane was delayed waiting for passengers from a late flight, so the lights stayed on and our kids, especially Amelia, spiraled downward into a screaming fit of terrible-ness.  The people around us looked understandably annoyed – we were also – but they were kind enough to recognize we were trying anything and everything to help her.  She would not be helped!  The plane took off an hour and a half late, at around midnight.

The worst part was that they left the lights on until after dinner was served, nearly two hours after we took off.  As soon as the lights were out, Levi conked out and slept the rest of the flight – good.  But, meanwhile, Millie was screaming and a complete mess and nothing was helping.  Matthew finally, after hours pacing the plane, got her to sleep about five hours into the flight.  (She had fallen asleep once previously, but only for about twenty minutes.)  She woke as breakfast was served (Brussels Airline feeds you constantly – it’s awesome) and began the screaming/fussing all over again.  It was awful, but more so for Matthew, since she really didn’t want me, only him.  Levi was quite tired, though, so he was handful enough.

We landed in Brussels and got through immigration, which was the easiest thing ever.  All of our bags arrived intact – we had six bins and two suitcases…for interest-sake, we arrived in Congo with just eight bins.  We refused to pay for extra bags!  Success!  Then it was time to meet our hosts at the airport.  We got turned around, though I’m sure it had nothing to do with our complete lack of sleep and overwhelming stress of the flight, and after an hour of waiting and moving our mountain of belongings, we finally used a pay phone and called our hosts.  We met just five minutes later and he drove us home.  Amelia began screaming again, but quickly gave up and fell asleep.  Levi followed suit not long after.

The brief drive to their house was absolutely gorgeous.  It was peaceful, with drivers following the laws of the road and not giant potholes – something not experienced in Kinshasa.  We passed Waterloo and saw the monument for the battle there.  There was a bit of snow still on the ground.  There was a cold snap in this part of Europe this week, and it was just about freezing temperatures outside.  We were only slightly prepared, but LOVED the cold.  We arrived at their house, got the kids settled with their grandkids’ toys, and stowed our bins in their neighbor’s empty garage.  Just the suitcases would follow us to The Netherlands.

That afternoon we enjoyed Belgian foods and two of their grandchildren came over after school.  Levi and one of the boys were friendly and managed to communicate.  He only spoke French, but Levi understands it quite well, and Levi only speaks English, but he knew enough to get along.  It was very adorable and a little funny to listen to.

The evening was okay, but we decided to go on a walk to the center of the village hoping the fresh air would help after such a long 24 hours.  Levi promptly fell asleep and Amelia just loved the cold.  We did, too.  Such a wonderful feeling after being so hot all the time.  Levi stayed asleep in the stroller just inside the front door, while we got upstairs for dinner.  I tried to wake Levi and sit him at table with us, but he fussed, so I had go sit on the couch, where he literally flopped on his side and fell immediately back asleep.  Poor kid.

Amelia didn’t do much better, but she did eat something.  We got them upstairs to bed and just carried Levi to his bed, he barely noticed.  Amelia, on the other hand, took a bit of work.  Poor girl.  Finally, she fell asleep.

We enjoyed an evening, chatting with our hosts.  They are Americans, who have lived in Belgium since 1958.  All six of their kids were born there, and they now have 17 grandchildren.  They operated a publishing house, specializing in Christian materials, including French/English translation.  They have traveled to Congo, and flown MAF several times there.  They are familiar with life there, which was a fun conversation piece.

Matthew and I took a second walk to town after everyone else was in bed then crashed into the cold attic bed under wool blankets.  It was so cozy and wonderful – we miss the winters from our five years in Alaska more than we realized!

Amelia woke from cold, so Matthew decided to join her, but Levi just slept through it all.

We were up by six, and woke Levi by seven – he slept from 5:30pm!  Poor tired guy!  We got all packed and were on the road in time to catch the train just a few minutes away from their house.  The kids were so excited to ride the train.  Amelia had a few rough moments, but she did get a nap.  Levi just LOVED the train.  We switched trains two times, once in downtown Brussels, where we took the time to have real Belgian waffles, then again in Roosendaal, Netherlands.

This afternoon we chilled at home with Maarten and Nicolien, and their kids Hanna and Toon (pronounced “tone”).  Nicolien and I went grocery shopping.  I was completely fascinated, mostly by the cheap cheese and amazing produce.  There is a windmill in their neighborhood, and waterways, and lots and lots of bicycles.  All so Dutch!  The men and kids went to a park and had a great time, even with the cold.  It was snowing earlier, actually.  SNOW!  We love snow!

So, by now, it’s late and we’re tired – wonder why!  Here are a few pictures from the last 24 hours and I’m sure there will more…