Levi is 3!
How did this…
Grow into this?
Ah well, yesterday was Levi’s 3rd birthday and it was a wonderful day, but let me set the scene, starting with Friday.
I planned Friday. I have learned that to “plan” a day means to actually not plan much at all, but to have a few things in place to help the day go well. I had very little to do because the party was at our house, where we have not been living and the construction is finally done and Papa Willy has been cleaning like a mad man. Seriously. That man has moved every piece of furniture, scrubbed every wall with bleach, mopped every day he’s been around. We have officially hired him each Saturday, now that his regular families are back in town and he was looking for one more day of work. Yay! So, the house was empty, mostly tidy, and clean. All I had to do was make cupcakes and set up. See? Not more than a few hours. I had two teen girls, Emily and Lydia (who had celebrated their birthdays on Thursday and that day), daughters of other MAF families, ready to keep the kids at the apartment. However, Friday morning, it was clear that we can just throw all those plans down the toilet.
We woke to no power at the apartment. No power at the apartment means little to no water. I couldn’t leave the kids and the sitters at the apartment without power or water, so I brought them with me. No big deal. But, of course, every time I walked through the room, the kids wanted to visit with me. How sweet… Then we discovered there was no power at the house. Okay, I’ll do everything I can and then turn the generator on. It will run the oven if almost everything else is off, no problem.
So, I set to work making cupcakes. I figured I needed to multiply my recipe by five. It became a production. At least I had all of the ingredients on hand, and all of the tools.
By the afternoon, including numerous necessary interruptions, I had made three cakes and 60 cupcakes. Whew. At least I wasn’t planning frosting. Chocolate cupcakes with sprinkled powdered sugar on them are very pretty…and save a lot of work!
By the evening, Matthew was done with work, but he’d had an equally stressful and eventful day. Unfortunately, we had learned that the apartment’s power was not coming back for a while. Some soldiers had arrived in the middle of the night and stole that street’s power cable. Lovely. And the landlord’s generator was broken. So, without power or water, it suddenly seemed necessary to move back to the house that night. But, by the time we dealt with all of the other miscellaneous things that came up that day (like our wireless being dead at the house, still no power, the water pump died a week ago and Matthew replaced it, but it still needed some parts, so we are still running on gravity tank water), we fed the children, got Amelia to bed (not without her struggles), we were exhausted.
That night Lydia was having a birthday party of her own, with cake and games, and I really wanted to go. Matthew told me I should go, to relax, and pick up stuff at the apartment, since it was only next door. I had a great time and was grateful for the R&R.
The power finally came back on at the house and Matthew was able to enjoy his evening with Levi. We all got to bed, completely out of it, by 11pm. We felt the weight of Saturday’s needs already on our shoulders. But it was nice to be back in “our” bed again!
Saturday morning, the power was on! So, I made Levi a pancake breakfast (his favorite) and we enjoyed it together as a family. Matthew went over to the apartment because it had been 24 hours since the power had gone out and we needed to get the fridge and freezer contents to a new location. However, the landlady had fixed the generator and had it running! One less thing to do on an already-busy day!
Matthew then went across the street to help ready a guest apartment for a MAF volunteer arriving on Sunday while I put Amelia down for her nap. She slept for two hours, and since it was Levi’s birthday, I turned on his favorite movie and, quite suddenly, I had free time! The time I planned on having Friday was now mine! Praising the Lord for this unexpected blessing, I was able to finish tidying, play with Levi, make lunch, and feel ready for the birthday party.
The birthday party was doubling as a cultural experiment. We invited everyone we knew, which is about half Mundeles (Lingala for white people) and half Congolese. We weren’t sure what the cultural expectations for a party were, but we were excited to find out! I was very careful to tell everyone the time and that we would serve Cokes and cupcakes.
One o’clock rolled around and no on was there. Actually, we heard sirens. Sirens here mean two things: a political figure was coming or a funeral. Since death here is so common, you can generally assume it’s a funeral. The funeral procession went right in front of our house and all the sentinels on the street were standing in front of their gates, at attention, to honor the deceased. It was a neat thing to witness.
Finally, a few people started to trickle in and an hour later it was a party! The swing hanging from a very tall tree branch became a hit with all of the kids (and a few of the adults), since so many of the missionary folks speak the languages (both French and Lingala), we were all able to communicate. But, really, it was most fun to meet and spend time with the families of a few of the Congolese we’ve gotten to know a little bit. Even a few sentinels working nearby that we knew and my vegetable lady, Mama Victorine, stopped by.
Levi was actually quite the little ham and was nice enough to talk to most everyone. He was at least cooperative to go around get pictures taken will the attendees.
The one person who didn’t show was Levi’s birthday buddy. Pepe shares a birthday with Levi and the party was for him as well. Someone finally gave him a call and we learned that his motorcycle had broken down en route, he was sold a bad part for repair and finally walked, arriving just after the last person left, but already late for his regular work for another MAF family. We agreed he and his fiance would come over later for Cokes.
We had a few hours to hang out, Matthew went back across the street to finalize the guest apartment while David Francis was working there, and Levi got to help out a little. Levi was quite happy with leftover pancakes after such a busy day and Amelia went to bed.
Just after sundown, Pepe’s fiance, Joy, arrived and we had our neighbor Orelik come over to help translate. Pepe finally got there and we started party #2. Pepe is like a big kid. I went in to make a quick dinner and when I came back twenty minutes later, I found a rope-climb competition. Turns out that swing is fun for everyone! We ate and Pepe had to get back to work as sentinel for the night across the street.
Overall it was a fun day and I wish you could all experience it. I hope Levi remembers bits and pieces, even if it’s just through pictures. The Congolese people are so fun to have around, at least the friends we’ve made, and we are so happy they took the time and effort to come out to hang out with us and celebrate!
Of course, this post would not be complete without pictures…click on the first one to get started and enjoy!
- Starting my cupcakes…
- July 2009
- A pan-full of butter…mmmm, butter!
- Milk. Powdered. It is what it is.
- My kitchen solar light. It’s very nice to have light when there is no power.
- This “zombie-pirate” pancake was, in fact, made by and FOR Matthew. Levi got regular circular pancakes. For reals.
- Waiting for the party, loading up his truck.
- All ready, complete with tiny foam gliders for the kids.
- My completely illegal picture of the funeral procession in front of our house. That’s Alex’s back.
- Cake table, with battery-powered fans and we eventually put out the computer for a Levi-centered slide show.
- Yay, cake! That truck is about as creative as I get. The M&Ms were Emily’s idea.
- Mr. Lee, our neighbor directly across the street admiring Levi’s baby photos. Hmmm, it seems someone else is admiring them, too?
- My favorite teenage girls. Anna, Lydia, and Emily adore Levi and Amelia…and for this, I am so grateful!
- Excellence (Congolese names are unique and meaningful…I should do a post on it sometime) works as a sentinel for another MAF family across the street and also plays the acoustic guitar at our church. He wins Best Dressed for the party!
- Garth Pederson, a MAF pilot, his son Sam and Levi’s “Aunt” Sandy Francis.
- Mingling!
- The two girls on the left are Papa Mosengo’s, then there’s Mama Roz, Mama Becky, and Mama Nancy
- Our two sentinels, Alex & Mosengo! We are truly blessed to have these guys in our lives!
- Papa Mosengo’s wife, Celestine and two youngest daughters (he has six kids total)
- Five of Papa Willy’s kids, the girls are two sets of twins, and Mama Valerie and Aunt Sandy, both MAF wives and teachers (why some ladies are Aunt and some are Mama is just what ended up sticking with Levi)
- Me and Baby Christine, Papa Mosengo’s three-month-old
- Papa Willy’s son, Benjamin, spent most of the time with this tire
- Mama Valerie and Mama Sandy were helping Levi swing. Little Sarah, Papa Mosengo’s daughter, was next in line…
- Me and Celestine, Mosengo’s wife
- Papa Willy’s daughter was excited to hold Amelia (Greene’s, is this Bethany or Nina?)
- Over the course of the day we went through a case and a half of Cokes. Good thing they’re cheap here!
- July 14, 2012
- Amelia learned to climb the stairs. Not dangerous at all.
- Finally, Pepe and Levi shared a birthday moment!
- Leftover pancakes for dinner outside, yes please! And Amelia’s face is priceless!
- Party #2 with Orelik, Joy and Pepe on our newly-repaired, lit, and painted veranda
June in Pictures
Edit: So I just learned that if you click on a picture, it enlarges and you can flip through them like a photo album (or like on facebook)…hopefully that helps!
I’m trying a new method to this picture post. It’s a ton easier on my side, but does it ruin it for you?
- Pepe marveling at all that is Google Translate
- Levi climbed atop this barrel just to sit next to Sunshine
- I told him to look angry at the camera
- Levi was hanging out with Pepe, who was trying to help prep our veranda for paint
- The garden before…it is now in mid-grow
- Tiny avocados on our tree
- Our papa bunny…we have three mamas for him
- Levi and his kingdom
- How do you quickly fix a broken spigot of a huge water tank? Congo-style: with a stick!
- Mosengo making fufu
- The most attractive picture of Amelia ever. That girl loves to eat!
- Levi, struttin’ his stuff!
- Levi and Serenity (the apartment cat) love each other tons, can’t you tell?
- Bonus giraffe picture from Kenya!
- Mama Victorine, from whom I buy much of my produce, loves to hang out with Amelia
- Amelia’s new earrings
And a special birthday shout out to Matthew’s sister! Hope it’s fantastic, Jennifer!
Random project pics…
Here are some “befores” and a few “afters”. I will be taking some shots of the house with all the work complete, these should make you appreciate everything a little more…

The old toilet – broken lid, broken flusher, broken valve – fortunately Mike had a new one on standby. (The broken base is all my doing)

Hard to see, but this is one of the several ant nests built under the loose counter tiles – there were lots of centipedes as well.

The roofing broke, fell through, and punched a hole in the veranda ceiling… fortunately the kids left the porch a few minutes before.
Anyway, there is a new toilet, new counters, new veranda ceiling, several new doors, ceiling repair in the dining room and hall bath, and new paint on the veranda walls! Pics to come!
-Matthew
Jambo!*
How do I describe our week in Kenya? Exhausting, yet refreshing. Amazing, yet familiar. An excellent break from the “norm” in Kinshasa, without being too bedazzling we never want to leave. Vacationing with two small children is hardly a vacation in the traditional sense, but this particular week we had tons of help and we were able to enjoy nearly all of the amenities offered. However, we are also super excited to be home and get some rest!
If you are as unfamiliar with Africa, geographically, as I am, then you will certainly appreciate the map that I’ve included. We flew from Kinshasa to Nairobi, Kenya’s modern capital. It was a three and a half hour flight. Traveling internationally is no longer such a monumental event as it was when we moved here to Kin. The immigration and visa paperwork is annoying, but at least we had plenty of help from the the other MAF families who were traveling with us to help watch the kiddos while we checked bags, filled out forms, and waited. And waited. Our flight was already an hour delayed before we even got to the airport. Ah well, this is Congo! We’re on Congo time!
The kids did beautifully on the airplane. Levi sat for the entire flight, did not whine even once. He played with some cars, drew some pictures, and talked non-stop. We don’t own a DVD player and didn’t pull out the computer. See? He’s awesome. Amelia was happy to play with the three teenage girls of MAF families who I’m not sure how I would do life here without their help.

Levi bothering “Uncle” David Francis, Matthew’s pylon-building partner mentioned in the previous post
After arriving two hours late to Nairobi, we quickly were transported to the guest house facility where we’d be spending the night. The drive through the streets reminded both Matthew and me of driving through the residential hills of Seattle, except in Kenya they drive on the left. It was dark, so there wasn’t much to see. The guest house was a place just for missionary families passing through town. Many of the other MAF families from the three bases were already there. We got there just at the end of dinner service, ate quickly, and got the kids to bed. We were in a tiny room, but made it work as best we could. It was cooler in Nairobi than we were used to, but it felt so good. Some even wore sweatshirts! It was going to be an early morning, so after socializing a little bit with the adults we turned in as well.
Very early the next morning all of the MAF families got into vans and headed back to the airport. We had a one hour flight out to the coast. After arriving at the tiny airport of this tourist town, we packed into more vans to head out to the resort. It was fun to see the Kenyan countryside and the way the locals lived. To compare it to life here in this giant city of Kinshasa is unfair, but there were many similarities. The building styles were different and there was a lot of livestock. Oh, and corn. There were huge cornstalks everywhere lining the roads. Since it’s the fall/early winter time here, they are nearing harvest time. So funny to see corn in a jungle!

This is one thing Kenyans have in common with Congolese – luggage racks are used. A lot. And those are our bins and our stroller.

Taken from a moving vehicle, the roofs are thatched grass “panels” but are also water-resistant and very tropical-looking.
Arriving at the resort we were greeted with quite the fanfare! The other MAF families that had arrived earlier were there, as well as drinks and cold towels for refreshing. We checked in, got our all-inclusive bracelets on, and headed to our room. Unfortunately, it was small and Matthew and I panicked a little. The night before, in the tiny room at the guest house, it had not gone well all being together in a small space, and we did not readily anticipate an entire week under those circumstances. However, the hotel was more than happy to upgrade us to adjoining rooms, which were also bigger. We settled into our room and headed out to look for some sort of breakfast food, since it was still only nine in the morning.
The outdoor buffet, where all of the meals would be eaten, surrounded the main pool. Levi wandered over that first day and I watched as he introduced himself to some teenage girls in the pool and told them he was five years old. I laughed so hard. I know, I shouldn’t be laughing that he was lying to impress much older girls, but the kid is not even three…what a character! These girls happened to be part of the team that had flown in from California to lead our week.
The purpose of this trip to Kenya was not just some R&R for tired missionaries (and a few, like us, who had arrived on the field just in time), it was for refreshment and encouragement. So, a team of a few pastors and their wives, along with some individuals, from the Rose Drive Friends Church in California raised the money to come serve us in this way. They led the worship, morning and evening sessions, youth and kids programs, and brought lots and lots of treats. Do you know how to bless an isolated missionary? Bring them Ranch dressing powder, brand name chocolate bars, and dried berries. This they did, and so much more.
The girls did a great job giving the kids a great time while us adults were encouraged and filled in the sessions. We talked about challenges, living lives of constant change, our purpose on the mission field, and many other topics. Each session was made more intriguing because of drawings for aforementioned goodies and freely passed-out chocolate. But, we always make an effort to put God at the center of what we do, our focus, and this week we were reminded how and why that works best.
It was also a time to meet the people from the other DRC bases in Bunia and Lubumbashi (see map above). There were several families from the other bases with small children, so I was so excited to hear about their lives and how they handle it with little ones. Those are some brave women! Their lives out in the bush of DR Congo make my life here in the big city seem easy.
Between the morning session and dinner we had free time. Levi loved the pool, as did Amelia. Matthew enjoyed a daily afternoon water polo game. We also spent time eating more food, poking around on the beach, and enjoying the kids’ nap time as a time alone for us. Because the resort was environmentally friendly, they did not clear their beach of seaweed and it was seaweed season. So, we didn’t spend too much time out there. Enough to stick our toes in the Indian Ocean and feel its warmth!
On Monday, my leftover rash from my Chikungunya suddenly decided to come back with a vengeance. It became painful, like an awful mix between a sunburn and a mosquito bite. It was hideously ugly, too. I finally broke down and took Benadryl, which of course knocked me out cold, but I was too uncomfortable to be awake anyway. Thankfully, it was better by Wednesday, though my ankles continue to be swollen and sore even now.
That first day I was hanging out in the room, unpacking a bit, and letting Levi nap when I heard a racket in the trees. “Goodness, those birds are noisy,” I thought. When it continued, I stepped outside on the porch. Not birds, monkeys. Of course there would be monkeys in the trees in Africa, right? And so many interesting bugs. So much more interesting than the bugs in Kinshasa. Brightly colored things, giant praying mantises, millipedes several inches long and nearly an inch across that looked prehistoric, and then there were the crabs. Somehow, these crabs would get all the way by the hotel rooms. I did a dance with one trying to get back to my room, using my dress to scares it away. It really didn’t work. Finally I just charged at it when I heard other people coming and I didn’t want to look stupid, fighting with a crab. Thankfully, the bugs and crabs stayed out of our room!

We were warned that the monkeys have been known to break into the rooms if you leave your porch door open…
One highlight was getting to go snorkeling over a reef. Not being a confident swimmer, I stayed in the boat for the most part because this day was especially windy. I did enjoy feeding the fish, since they were eating right out of my hand. Matthew, on the other hand, spent the entire time in the water and was able to see some pretty neat wildlife only before enjoyable during a viewing of Finding Nemo.
Friday morning was filled with good byes as most of us and the Rose Drive Team headed back to the airport. It was time to get back to real life in Congo, but Matthew and I were ready to get home and get right back into the work. We really do love it here! However, before we could go home, we had a long layover in Nairobi that we weren’t about to waste.
Ok, much of it was wasted sitting in traffic. Nairobi has some of the worst traffic on the continent and it really rivaled any that we experienced growing up in Seattle. But, our first stop outside the airport was a giraffe park. We each got to pet a giraffe and feed it a pellet. If one desired, they could put the pellet in their mouth and get a kiss. We are not that lonely, though. They also had some warthogs and tortoises roaming about.
One other perk about being in a big, modern city like Nairobi was the presence of malls. Lots of them. We only had time for one, so we stopped and sped through it. It was just like any mall in the states, even some of the chain stores were the same. They had a great store with adorable baby clothes, but at big city mall prices, so I did not splurge on what I did not need. We finally found a place to get Amelia’s ears pierced. It was something we had wanted to do before we left the states, but weren’t sure about conditions in Kinshasa. Once we found they were fine, but not wanting to get the actual piercing here, we were happy to do it while in Nairobi. The place was very clean, though an interesting mix. The front part of the store looked like any beauty store in a mall: make-up with people to put it on you. The next room was a salon, with hair and nail stations, even pedicure chairs. Then there was a dark hallway for piercings and tattoos. Why not? All the vanity you could want in one place, I guess! But, it was clean, they used sterile procedure and it only cost $6.
Finally, it was time to speed back to the airport (ok, sit in traffic for an hour…) and get home. More paperwork and checking our last bag full of souvenirs (the rest had been checked all the way from the beach), we got through immigration and security. We found some food on the run at the terminal and directly boarded the plane. Sure enough, something broke and we sat in the still aircraft for an hour…at the kids’ bedtime. Ugh. But, they both finally fell asleep and it was a relatively uneventful flight back to Kinshasa, landing at 11pm local time, 1am body time.
We waited for over an hour only to find one of our bags and a bag of another MAF family had not arrived. It turns out about 30 bags from the flight had not made it. We prayed hard that it would arrive, I even sent out a request on facebook. Two days later the bag finally found its way to Kin and it was completely untouched! We are praising the Lord for that small miracle! I cannot imagine replacing the items, mostly clothing and shoes, in this city.
We have spent the past three days sleeping, or so it seems. We got pretty tired trying to figure out how to best get the kids to sleep, so we were thankful to get back on a holiday weekend and have three full days for recovery. (No, not the 4th of July, the 30th of June…DR Congo’s Independence Day!) We are pleased at the work that was done at our house while we were gone and even contemplating a move back sooner than expected, because the power situation there has been better than at the apartment the past few days.
So, now we dive back into life here in Kinshasa, feeling refreshed with some awesome tans for Levi and I (Matthew just burns and Amelia was always well protected). We are praising God for a chance to see some more of this awesome continent and an even greater chance to refocus on Him and what He would have us do during our time here!

You can almost see my skirt matches Levi’s shirt – I had just gotten my fabric returned in the forms of several outfits…more pictures to come later…
*Jambo is Swahili, the language spoken in Kenya, besides English, for “hello.” Hakuna Matata was also frequently used. It really does mean “no worries.”
The Pylon…
I have been absent from the keyboard for a while, I know there are a few of you interested to see more about the recent antenna build… I have tried to keep the dry stuff to a minimum, and put in lot of pictures…
This was apparently just Phase One of our major IT restructuring. Near completion we found out we are moving our VSAT (satellite dish we use to connect to the internet) from TASOK (The American School Of Kinshasa) to the MAF house, and that requires a lot of work on the infrastructure side. Phase Two is starting this week and involves building a small structure to house the VSAT server, back up power system, and create a small work space for servicing those items.
The IT guys asked for a 10M pylon that would mount to the roof of the house and replace the existing 8M stick. The old one was just a welded up water pipe with concrete tie-wire for guys. It was a pain to raise and lower and required walking all over the roof to detach guys for lowering. Additionally, the lack of rigidity caused the pole to dance in the slightest breeze which affected the quality of the radio signals.
Working with David Francis, I came up with a design for the new tower that would allow us to pivot the entire tower down for servicing as well as running guy wires we could work from the base of the tower (no more ridge walking). David added a sweet detail of having the upper portion of the pylon fully rotational from the base – so the antenna alignment could be tweaked with the tower fully raised and guys fixed.
We started out with a pile of rather bent pipe, several 10s of meters of looped 8mm rebar, and a stack of decade old welding rod – not exactly a recipe for perfection, but we were not shooting that high anyway.
David found an old tripod from a previous radio pylon, and we used that to set jigs for spacing the tower legs.
It was then a matter of spending hours welding on trussing – this was a major pain as the rod was old, and the cheap Chinese rebar melted as soon as you got it hot enough to weld. Our one saving grace was a beautiful old Lincoln Generator/Welder that had a very good voltage regulator as well as AC/DC dual polarity ability.

After we tacked it all down, David spent a loooong time finishing and dressing all the welds – cheap metal and poor rod makes for a lot of work!
Once the trussing was on, David custom fit the tripod (to support the upper mast) and fabricated a bunch of the detail work – a rotating anchor point for the upper guy wires, a clamp plate for locking the rotation of the upper mast, earrings for attachment points, etc… I knocked out the pivot base, and welded in supports for the counterweight plates.
As soon as everything was welded and dressed, Nestor got to work with the anti-rust paint – everything looked a whole lot more official with a coat of paint!
No picture, but our counterweight (so far) is a matched pair of cracked heads from two Toyota diesel engines, they easily bolted on to the base plate, and I will be adding some concrete to make up for the additional weight of the full antenna package at the extreme end of the lever.
One of the most expensive components was the ground wire and rod – these, along with the guys and rigging hardware cost more than the steel for the tower. But, with the highest number of lightening strikes in the world, and a 10M lightening catcher on top of David’s house, we had some motivation to do it right.
The final touch is a winch attached to the tower base, that tensions the only guy wires required to slacken for lowering the tower. This means that you just have to loosen the wire, pull the tower lock bolts, and swing it down. You only have to walk up and down a major valley – causing a little less wear and tear on the roof as well as reducing risk to the crew.
I eventually want to run a 12v winch on the base plate, that will allow easy raising and lowering of the tower. Ideally, it would be a one-man operation.
To plug the next project here is a teaser pic of me clearing the site for the IT shack… I will try to get back to you all soon!
Back in my hey day (as in, before kids), I worked as a lab tech. I ran tests on blood, urine, and any other imaginable human fluid. I loved it! I miss it sometimes. My jobs both in Washington and in Alaska were amazing. However, three months before Levi was born, I retired and happily started a new career as one of those stay-at-home weirdos. But, I’m still a nerd when it comes to the lab. One of my secret dreams was to see a lab in a foreign country. Today my dream came true, but I would’ve liked it to have been under different circumstances.
Yesterday morning I woke up with sore ankles. My cold had drizzled to a cough, so I figured I had simply slept on them wrong. A little odd that both of them hurt, but whatever. It did make me walk like an old lady. Wednesdays are my normal shopping days with Pepe, so I ran my errands as usual, ending up back at our house (versus the apartment where we’re currently sleeping) to meet Matthew for lunch while Pepe helped out with some of those projects. (Our children were under excellent care at the apartment.) I was telling him that my ankles were still surprisingly sore, almost getting worse, when I noticed my wrists were also sore. And then Matthew pointed out my rash. It covered my arms, chest and face, with a milder version on my torso.
I immediately called a local PA. PA Niles is American, but she grew up in Congo, also spending time in Haiti, so she knows tropical medicine and five languages. She asked if I had a fever. “Oh no, of course not,” I responded ever-so-confidently. She told me that she thinks is something called “Chikungunya,” a mosquito borne illness. It normally presents with fever, but not always. It’s self-limiting and will just make me miserable, so take Tylenol, get rest, etc.
An hour later I started getting chills. By that evening, I was quite feverish, so I gave her another call. She wanted to be sure to rule out malaria, so she really wanted to see me and get me tested in the morning.
So, I went to bed rather miserable, now wondering if malaria was a real possibility, and, once the newest dose of Tylenol kicked in, I fell asleep.
Three and a half hours later, I awoke with the urgent need to use the bathroom (because I had been good, drinking lots of water as instructed), except that I couldn’t move. I was completely frozen with fever and my joints were screaming at me. I lay there for, probably half an hour, trying to ignore my bladder and get warm enough to fall back asleep, to no avail. I finally got up to use the restroom. That was the longest 10 yard trek I’ve ever managed, I’m pretty sure. By the time I got back, my moaning and groaning had awakened Matthew. He got me more Tylenol and tried to get me warm again. Once it kicked in, I fell back asleep.
Of course, it would be the night that both kids would have trouble sleeping, too. (We checked, they’re not sick…we think they’re both actually going through growth spurts, based on the tons of food they ate today.) Poor Matthew had to keep getting up while I was slightly delusional with fever.
Morning finally arrived and I tapped on my neighbor’s window to confirm our plans made the night before about driving me out to see PA Niles and go to the lab. She opened the door with a surprised: she, too, was now sick with the exact same symptoms and her husband would drive us both down. We took Amelia, while Matthew took Levi over to our house to work with him. PA Niles commented how beautiful my bright red rash looked – very impressive. She wrote out lab slips after our physical exams and we went over there. When it was time for the the blood draw, my neighbor (who also happens to be the program manager for the DRC MAF program) came in, carrying Amelia, to translate. He mentioned that I used to be a lab tech to the phlebotomist and she was very excited. When she was finished with me, I poked my head into the adjoining room to get a quick glance at the lab. She told me to go ahead and go check it out, yelling to the two lab techs that I used to be one, too. One of them spoke enough English to give me a tour. I must say, I was utterly stoked. They only ran a few tests, and nearly everything was done manually. Their largest instrument was the size of a shoebox (in the US we have instruments that are the size of small cars). That being said, I recognized most of the equipment and remembered most of its use. It was awesome and, for just a second, I forgot that I was in a terrible amount of pain in my joints and had a scorching fever.
The malaria test was negative and my other labs were normal. Yay! So, what’s the big deal now? Ahhhhhh, remember in my last post I mentioned an exciting weekend?
Every year each of MAF’s programs around the world try to organize a family conference. This is a time to regroup, have some R&R, an rebuild the team. Some years it’s very basic, maybe only for a weekend, but this year is a big deal. The entire DRC program, from all the bases around the country, are getting together for an entire week. A team from a church in California is flying out to lead the activities, including some for youth and children. The best part? It’s at an all-inclusive resort on the beach…in Kenya.
So, Saturday morning we fly out to Kenya, pausing a night in Nairobi, and finishing the last leg to the resort town the next day. We come home the following Saturday. We are planning on an internet blackout while there, so try not to miss us too much. I’m not sure, considering my energy levels at this point, that I’ll even have time to do another post before we go.
Please pray for safe travels, that I heal quickly (Wiki says my fever should be done tomorrow), and that we will have a relaxing vacay on the shores of the Indian Ocean!
Temporary Shelter in a Construction Storm
Since I last posted on Thursday (well, Friday morning here, but you’d never know it!) I mentioned I was headed out to an orphanage. I’m sure that peaked some of your interests and would love to hear all about it. I’d love to tell you all about it. It’s sad. Orphanages are sad. Orphanages in third world countries top the list of saddest things ever. That blog post would, therefore, be sad. I don’t like writing sad posts. Don’t get me wrong, I hope that I am writing honest posts. Things are not always hunky dory here in Congo, and I hope that we are not conveying that falsehood. However, there is a difference between a serious post and a downright depressing one.
So, to sum up the orphanage visit, it was about 40 minutes outside of town. It started as a hospital and grew into an orphanage, hospital, clinic, and compound, housing around 700 children, if you can imagine. We only visited the toddlers and babies, so I didn’t get the full tour. The toddlers were quite content on this day because there were enough toys to go around. I managed to avoid the classic visit consequences of getting some form of bodily fluid on me, which was lovely. It was hard to tell the ages on some of them because of past malnutrition, though in comparison to stories of other orphanages, this one is well managed and the children are cared for as best possible considering the lack of staff.
The walk down the hallway where the babies were was sad. The smell in the building was either ammonia, or unchanged diapers. Seeing the babies about Amelia’s age was not very easy on me, emotionally. They were cute and seemed content, but only because they were used to a lack of attention. The infants, there were only a couple, were even more sad. They had little cribs with toys hanging down and sucked their thumbs.
See? Depressing. Well, it might be more so if I were a better writer. But here is what it is. I’m not going for shock value, and I feel that more detail in my relaying of the orphanage would do just that. More importantly, I now realize and have confirmed that God did not call me here to minister to orphans. While I felt sad and empathetic to the babies there, I was not overwhelmed with the desire to rescue them, or even continue visiting. Does that sound cold and heartless? Perhaps, but it’s honest. And honesty, in this context, really is the best policy.
So, to you who feel more led to read about the orphanage, please visit Nancy’s blog. Nancy “hosted” the morning out there and goes two or three times each month. I appreciate her taking me and getting the opportunity to see it. I would not want to have missed it. But, I will continue to seek God’s will for my time on Congo and can check orphanage off my list.
So, moving on to happier things…Matthew had a mild cold during the week (during editing…I realized this is just after happier things. I laughed out loud, thus it stays as it is.) and by Saturday, Levi and I were beginning symptoms. It was also temporary moving day. We have temporarily moved over to Nick and Jocelyn Frey’s house while they are lolly-gagging back home in Canada. Actually, they’re awaiting the birth of baby number one. They have a cute, new apartment and an indoor cat named, Serenity. Serenity uses the toilet. I’ve witnessed it. We are also borrowing their very nice, new XTerra. I drove it between this house and our house to move stuff. It went well. Have you driven in a third world country? How’d it go? Granted, it’s all in the same neighborhood, but still…there are people, cars, bumps, and one giant puddle that rivals those motocross events. Later on Saturday afternoon we took advantage of the other amenity offered at their apartment: a pool. It’s winter, so believe it or not, it was actually too cold for Amelia and I, but it’s a nice option! And it’s immaculately maintained.
Meanwhile, back at our ranch the work is in full swing. The porch roof’s underside is replaced (which is nice because it was rotten asbestos). The cracks in the living room, which recently grew from crack to gap overnight have been addressed. There are still a few more projects, but I’m not exactly following their progress as to what’s next.
Sunday morning the cold, at least for me, made me feel nearer to death than I prefer. Perhaps an exaggeration, but you know how colds go. Levi and I stayed home from church to rest while Matthew and Amelia took Mosengo, who was working at our house, back to Nsango Na Bomoi. We are really enjoying the services there. Matthew is even getting good enough at Lingala to at least pick up on the topic of the sermon. And people asked where we were! Aww!
And now it’s Tuesday. Yesterday I spent the day moving more stuff over and in. Today will probably be more of the same. Finally, the end of the week is looking very exciting…I’ll post more on that later.
I rarely update on the kids, but they are, of course, part of life here too. Levi is getting big and very close to his third birthday. There are some days that are very challenging and some days where I’m pretty sure he is already an adult. He has mastered the English language and speaks far better than most adults. Amelia is making a ton of progress. She has eight teeth and is pushing things around, walking behind them. She has a few words she is working on, like brother, banana, bottle, hmmmm…they’re all B words. She also does mama and dada. Her biggest accomplishment is sleeping through the night. We thought we’ve been there before only to take giant leaps backwards. So far, it hasn’t seemed like anything in our lives has been consistent enough for sleep training until now. So, we began. I downloaded my favorite sleep book on the Kindle, read it in two days, and one week later she sleeps through the night, twelve to thirteen hours, takes two good naps, and requires nothing but a kiss goodnight and a closed door. YESSSSSS! For the first time in nine months we get sleep and a bed to ourselves. It was our mistake not doing it sooner, but it’s been an easy transition. And if you’d like the book recommendation, I’m happy to give it.
I know I’m overdue on a Food Series post, but I think my camera is screaming for a picture post. We’ll see if I can do both this week, shall we?
Week of the Workers
Remember when I posted about Alex et Mosengo and I said that some people hire as many people as they can afford and give them various jobs? That was our life this week. It was a little crazy, but so much work got done. I got a very sweet note from my mother-in-law after I posted that blog, reminding me that in cultures in the past, managing a household of workers was part of the job as a housewife. The ideal Godly woman, highlighted in Proverbs 31, doesn’t do it all herself: she has people for that, and she treats them well. Apparently, that’s me. I would not have seen it that way without my mother-in-law’s reminder. So, this week I accelerated my experience in old school home management.
Our MAF neighbors are on vacation and wanted their part time indoor worker to not be without pay. So, I agreed to take him on for one day a week, because he makes epic tortillas (as previously mentioned). But, then I heard that he cleans well, so I agreed to two days per week. However, his first day here, he did such an amazing and thorough job cleaning that I was blown away. And I didn’t even need to keep him tasked, he found things to do all by himself. So, when he asked about working Wednesday, too, I asked Matthew and we agreed he should.
Then I remembered that I always hire Pepe on Wednesdays. Pepe is a driver, and so he usually takes me grocery shopping. But he will do anything for work to keep him busy, so if I don’t have any place to go, I recently discovered that he, too, can clean.
So, now I had three workers coming on Wednesday…how could I manage all of them and the kids? So, I “hired” one of the MAF teenagers who loves the kids to come over, too.
Thus, Wednesday was very eventful. Mosengo relieved Alex at 7am, just like every morning. Papa Willy, the epic tortilla-maker, arrived at 7:30. Pepe showed up around 9am. I went and walked our sitter down around 10. Let the work party begin!
Mosengo went about his usual duties in the yard, making it gorgeous. Willy did the dishes and washed the walls in the kitchen. Then he set about dusting the living room, pulling out the couches. Soon he was mopping the whole thing. Pepe was set to work preparing the porch railings (which are concrete slabs) to be painted, so he began by bleaching them and scraping off old paint.
Meanwhile, I was all ready to get some baking and laundry done (my laundry is being done at the vacant house across the street because my washer is still down)…but then the power went out. Oh, Congo! So, I putzed around, helped Matthew with his tasks here at the house that he was working on, got lunch together, etc.
Part of having workers is feeding them. We told Papa Willy and Pepe all of the food we could offer them and let them choose from what we had. They settled on fufu, a local favorite that I will talk about in a future food post, and Papa Mosengo set to making it for the group. It was really fun to see all of the working guys enjoying lunch together.
That afternoon, Pepe took me for a quick grocery run at the closest store (grocery shopping will be featured in our next food post). After, we went on an errand to pick up a part for Matthew. Earlier in the day, the spigot on one of the water tanks popped off, sending 500 gallons of water into our driveway at full force. It was quite entertaining. And the temporary Congo fix was genius, put together by Papa Willy and Pepe, it was a big stick shoved in the spigot.
This errand took us to the local market, somewhere I really hadn’t had the opportunity to go yet. They have everything for sale there! While I waited a few feet away from Pepe for him to make the transaction, one of the other guys at the market greeted me, in English. So far, anytime a Congolese person greets you English, it’s followed by, “I speak English!” They are so excited to practice their phrases on you! I try to encourage them, but then always end with “Merci!” so as not to seem superior. I hope it’s working. Ha!
Another stand’s merchant came over to practice his English. The first one politely offered his chair to me. They were very pleasant. We bought a few more needed things and left. I realized once I left that not one person tried to sell me something and no one tried to ask me for money. These two things are very common here and I still can’t figure out why it didn’t happen that afternoon.
We drove around a bit more to find something else I remembered I needed, then headed home. On our way out of the marketplace, I saw a sewing shop with a bunch of foot-pedal-powered Singers in the room. I simply went “Oooooo” and pointed out my awe to Pepe. He said his sister does that. I incredulously asked if she makes dresses. He enthusiastically (Pepe does everything enthusiastically) said that she does indeed. I waited until we got home and I had my French/English dictionary before telling him I wanted some dresses made from my fabric. Once home, Pepe finished cleaning the porch and Papa Willy signed off from all of his work. Mosengo had spent the day adding to our garden (it’s his garden too). Meanwhile, inside the house both kids and the sitter were all sleeping. What a peaceful day for them!
Thursday didn’t start out very well. Levi began throwing a fit that lasted for five hours. FIVE. HOURS. I was exhausted and pretty much out of ideas for dealing with it. Matthew and his assistant, Nestor, had been working on a vehicle in our driveway, waiting for some people to show up to start work on some issues with the house. The roof is needing replaced and has gotten progressively worse (as in, collapsing) and there were some cracks in the walls that grew nearly overnight a few weeks ago, so we called the home owners (from whom the family that normally lives here rents) and they hemmed and hawed and the work was finally supposed to start that day. We weren’t sure on the specifics, but we were about to find out.
So, they showed up and immediately tear down began of the eves on the porch (that had already begun to collapse). It was loud and messy and very entertaining. I felt badly that Pepe had cleaned the porch so nicely the day before, but this wouldn’t be hard to sweep and wash away.
Alex jumped right in to help Matthew and Nestor with tear down. I put both kids down for a nap (Amelia slept through the chaos, Levi did not) and headed across the street to add to my laundry piles in progress. When I walked back in the gate I noticed that there were about eight or so workers there to work on the house. Thankfully, Pepe also showed up (originally to finish painting, but instead he helped with the big project). “Our” guys were able to make sure that “their” guys were not just wandering through the house or yard, keeping us and our things safe.
I remembered to show Pepe my fabric and get that conversation rolling. Alex heard us talking and was able to translate a little bit. Then Nestor, who also acts as Matthew’s translator, was able to translate a little more. Matthew, wondering where all of the guys were, came inside to find us all talking about dresses. Ha! I pulled up some pictures and printed them out for Pepe while he called his sister. He had to drive out to trade a vehicle and would pick her up while out, since she was nearby. He’d bring her back to our house for measurements and to talk about what I wanted that very night! Sweet!
Nestor and Pepe were about to leave when they got a brilliant idea: take Levi with them! They both love talking to and playing with Levi, and he is always happy to go for a ride, so we thought, why not? So, Levi went! Matthew continued working with the guys on the porch. One of them was inside fixing the giant cracks. Alex was helping with demo and clean up. I played with Amelia and started this blog, thinking it was only going to be about Wednesday.
I got a text from Pepe a little bit later (the Congolese are great at texting!), all in French of course, that basically translated to, he and Levi were at the park. They had gone to the American School campus to pick up the other vehicle and found the playground there. Hilarious! A few minutes later I got another text, saying that all was well, and about 30 seconds after that I got a phone call. It was Levi, saying hi, that he was climbing up the ladders and going down the slides and having a good time with Pepe. Adorable!
Finally they came home, with two ladies in tow. One was Pepe’s sister-in-law, the seamstress/dressmaker, and the other was Pepe’s fiance. I was so excited to meet her! One of the reasons Pepe works so hard is to pay off an unusually high dowry (yep, they still do that here). The two girls came in and we attempted to talk, as best we could, about the dresses I wanted and she took my measurements. Pepe got the great idea to go across the street and get Orelik (mentioned in a previous post – he speaks English, Lingala and French) to help translate. About ten minutes later Matthew walks in to loud, boisterous laughter between Orelik, Pepe, and the girls. I was just laughing, because I had no idea what was going on, and Amelia just sat there on the floor in the middle, grinning.
It was so fun having them over and, even though I couldn’t understand a word of it, I was, at that moment, so excited to be here and be a part of this experience.
Finally, we talked about price and timeline, and Pepe took the girls home. Matthew and I got Amelia to bed and finally sat down to have dinner. While get Levi ready for bed the power went off, so it was early to bed for all of us.
This morning I’m off to another adventure. Here at the house, the work continues, the kids will have fun with a sitter, and I’m off for my first visit to a Congolese orphanage.
Food: Procuring Produce…and Other Tasty Treats
This begins a series of posts all about food. Food is vital to life and health and happiness (you can’t have the latter without the first two, right?). Food is one thing each culture has in common, though what one eats, and what one doesn’t, varies as much as each culture does.
It has taken me a while to get this post together because I felt I needed some experience in order to post without sounding like an idiot. I still may sound like an idiot, but at least I’m an idiot with experience! Also, I don’t want to wait until the novelty wears off. Then I won’t remember what makes food here different from other places (ok, different from the states, since that is the only other place I’ve lived).
I don’t know how many different posts I can do about food, but already there are many planned and begun. Because I pretend to be a Type A personality, I am trying to do them in a logical order, starting with procuring the food. (And it won’t be continuous…I’ll post about other topics here and there…just in case you were thinking of tuning us out for a while…please don’t!)
In the states, nearly all of the food procurement is done at a grocery store, or multipurpose store, or warehouse store. Very little is done at open markets, or via delivery, or some other special circumstance. I suppose here it could be the same way for those of us making far above the average wage. However, we have found that there are a variety of ways to get our food items for a better price.
Eggs
We are awaiting our own chickens, but until then, we get our eggs from a local source, delivered. Actually, they get delivered to a neighbor’s house, who coordinates the egg order and payment, and then we walk across the street once a week and pick them up. Because they’re fresh and local, and unwashed, they are left at room temperature, instead of refrigerated like at home. Be careful, though, roaches love to hide in the egg cartons! (This is one place I haven’t seen one….yet.)
Coke
Coca-Cola is very popular here. However, getting it in plastic bottles is a rare thing. It comes in glass bottles, which were already here at the house, and you get them replaced with full ones as you drink them. Matthew, our first weeks here, took the bottles to get refilled himself as a fun experience. He loaded the cases and Levi into a wheelbarrow and headed down the bumpy street. Amazingly, all returned intact with two full cases of Coke. We just needed new ones (we don’t guzzle it!) and had one of our workers take them. Unfortunately, the wheelbarrow broke, sending one of the cases tumbling to the ground, breaking about half of the bottles. They were still empty at the time. It actually works out well because now we have extra bottles for our one intact case and can get it refilled before we run out!
Produce
Produce is typically cheapest on the street. However, most missionary families, including us, have it delivered by our own personal produce people. I have two. This initially started because I had a hard time saying no. However, I found that one had better fruits and one had better veggies, so it worked out well! Papa Joseph had a stand down at the Commercial Centre, but it was banned (and I assume it was burnt) the weekend when law enforcement did it to the whole city, so now he “hides” under an awning of another store. However, about once a week, whenever I need any veggies, I give him a list and he brings them to my house the next day. I usually get potatoes, onion, garlic, cabbages, tomatoes (yep, they are a fruit, but I go with it), and peppers from him. Fairly basic stuff. Every Saturday, Mama Victorine comes to my house with a delivery. As far as I know, she doesn’t have a stand, but I give her a list after she delivers the fruit. I usually buy bananas, avocados (perfect baby food), and whatever else sounds good that week: papaya, pineapple, mandarins, limes (for the Cokes, of course), these fruits called pomme rogue that Matthew and I can’t find a comparison for, but I’ll post pictures in a future Food Series post, etc. Her prices are high, but she always gives gifts when we’re done, so it makes up for it. And her stuff is high quality, too!
Bread
I mentioned bread in an earlier post and I do mostly still buy it that way. Sometimes, when I’m out of time, I have a worker go get it for me. Once we bought it while in the car and rolling down our window. I often get it at the Commercial Centre from Mama Lily. She has more spunk than any other Congolese woman I’ve met…I like her. For instance, she still sets up a table. So, either she had a business license (which is the rumored reason things got burnt – people didn’t have business licenses), or she is being spunky.
Tortillas
You can’t buy tortillas here. Or not that I’ve seen or heard, but someone, once upon a time, taught some of their workers to make them. Oh, yeah, I could make them on my own. I make many foods from scratch. But, you should know one thing about me: I HATE using a rolling pin. I will use it occasionally, but making tortillas, the one time I did, was like torture and I have refused ever since. However, we love tortillas and don’t want to miss out, so we’ve made an arrangement with our neighbor to have her worker make us a batch when he makes some for them. Ironically, as I type this, that family is on vacation and their worker is in my kitchen (the kitchen where he was rumored to have originally trained) making tortillas right this instant. Mmmmm…
Bulk Order
MAF also provides a monthly bulk order service where you order foods in large quantities and they are paid for right out of your MAF account here locally (the same way I mentioned that we get cash). I was told this is the best way to purchase chicken, tomato paste, some worker-specific local food, flour, rice, milk (powdered), etc. I decided to get super creative last month and ask for a bunch of other things that we eat in bulk, so why not try to get them that way. It didn’t turn out to be much cheaper, because foods simply aren’t offered in bulk like at warehouse stores in the states, but we’re still trying it out to see if it’s more convenient.

Breaking up the bulk frozen chicken, all thigh/leg pieces, into meal-sized portions. You can see the HUGE box of butter in the back, too.
Our Own Backyard
And, lastly, of course there’s the food growing in our backyard. We’re still working on a garden, but squash, watermelon, tomatoes, cucumbers, and cantaloupe are all on their way, some from local seeds! We have also enjoyed mangoes from the tree and just had a few coconuts from the palm. Watching Matthew pick the mangoes was a treat all by itself. Mosengo wanted to, but his eyesight isn’t good enough to see the mangoes, so he was trying to catch them. The Congolese who are quite good at it can pick them and catch them all at once. It’s crazy to watch!
What Language Barrier?
Let me paint this picture for you…a picture of life lived overseas:
Yesterday there were four men in my driveway having a conversation. Matthew, who speaks English and a little French. Pepe, who speaks French and a little Lingala. Mosengo, who speaks French and Lingala, and a teeny bit of English. And Orelik, who speaks English, Lingala, and probably French, though I’m not actually sure. There’s a good likelyhood, too, that Mosengo and Orelik also speak Kikongo, but I don’t think it came up yesterday. The back and forth of trying to have a discussion, which really did involve all four of them, and the translation, understanding, misunderstandings, and gesturing were hilarious. I just stood there, just outside their circle, in total amusement. I kept laughing at the hilarity of having a conversation in four different launguages. Mosengo translating for Pepe. Orelik translating for Matthew. And around the circle it went. Thankfully, it was a happy, boisterous conversation.
The topic? Bunnies. But that’s for another post, another day.



















































































